15 Truths You Need to Know About Your Tears

The Bible has a lot to say about those salty drops that run down your cheeks. Here are fifteen truths you need to know about your tears.

  1. Your tears are seen by God. He doesn’t miss a single one.

You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book? (Ps. 56:8).

Are you tempted to believe God doesn’t see or care about your pain? If so, how does that line up with this truth from His Word?

  1. Praying and tears go together.

“Hear my prayer, O LORD, and give ear to my cry; hold not your peace at my tears!” (Ps. 39:12).

Are you simply crying, or are you crying out to God?

  1. God has been known to act as a result of our prayerful tears.

“Go and say to Hezekiah, thus says the LORD, the God of David your father: I have heard your prayer; I have seen your tears. Behold, I will add fifteen years to your life” (Isa. 38:5).

What are you pleading with God for? How are you trusting Him to work?

  1. When God took on human flesh, He wept, too.

In the days of his flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to him who was able to save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverence (Heb. 5:7).

Do you know that God empathizes with your sadness, ’cause His tears fell too while on this earth?

  1. Serving the Lord and tears go together.

“Serving the Lord with all humility and with tears and with trials” (Acts 20:19).

How often does the work you are doing for God lead you to tears?

  1. Loving others and tears go together.

I wrote to you out of much affliction and anguish of heart and with many tears, not to cause you pain but to let you know the abundant love that I have for you (2 Cor. 2:4).

If tears are any indication, how deeply do you love others?

  1. We should cry over what breaks God’s heart.

My eyes shed streams of tears, because people do not keep your law (Ps. 119:136).

Are your tears self-centered or God-centered?

  1. Sometimes the most appropriate response we can have is to cry.

Their heart cried to the Lord. O wall of the daughter of Zion, let tears stream down like a torrent day and night! Give yourself no rest, your eyes no respite! (Lam. 2:18).

When is the last time you cried over the state of your . . .

  • world?
  • nation?
  • city?
  • church?
  • school?
  • family?
  1. Tears aren’t just for girls.

In Psalm 6:6, David says:

I am weary with my moaning; every night I flood my bed with tears; I drench my couch with my weeping.

Have you believed the lie that it’s a weakness for guys to cry?

  1. There will be seasons of nearly endless tears. But it’s just that. A season . . . that will turn into a new season.

Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning (Ps. 30:5).

Will you choose to believe in your pain right now that life will not always be like this? Because it won’t be.

  1. Other people might be uncomfortable with your tears, but God is not.

And standing behind him at his feet, weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears and wiped them with the hair of her head and kissed his feet and anointed them with the ointment. . . . Then turning toward the woman he said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair” (Luke 7:38, 44).

Do you feel the freedom to not hide your tears from God?

  1. Sometimes God doesn’t want us to cry anymore.

Thus says the LORD:

“Keep your voice from weeping, and your eyes from tears, for there is a reward for your work, declares the LORD, and they shall come back from the land of the enemy” (Jer. 31:16).

Could it be that you have cried enough, that it is time to look ahead to what God will do?

  1. God comforts those who are hurting.

The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit (Ps. 34:18).

Are you allowing God to comfort you?

  1. There are two kinds of tears: godly tears and worldly tears.

Godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death (2 Cor. 7:10).

Have you done more than just cry? Have you repented of all known sin?

  1. One day God Himself will wipe away the last of your tears.

He will swallow up death forever; and the Lord GOD will wipe away tears from all faces, and the reproach of his people he will take away from all the earth, for the LORD has spoken (Isa. 25:8).

Are you waiting and watching for Christ’s return with great hope?

  • Which truths stand out the most to you?
  • Did any truths surprise you?

About Author

Paula Marsteller

Paula no longer tries to catch guys' attention by swallowing live goldfish, arm wrestling, and jumping down flights of stairs. (She's married to a wonderful man now!) She spends her days caring for her son, Iren, and writing for Revive Our Hearts. She's the author of Confessions of a Boy-Crazy Girl: On Her Journey from Neediness to Freedom, and she and her family live in New York. You can catch all her writing on PaulaWrites.com.

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  • Em T

    Can everyone please pray? My brother may have appendicitis. We don’t have health insurance and we have very little money for this sort of thing. Thank you.

    • God’s daughter

      Em T, Praying for God’s plan for your brother’s health. Praying for you & your family. If you are a member of a church I’m sure your Pastor & his wife would like to hear this burden you have shared.

    • Jenna Liz

      Just prayed, sister!

      How is he now?

    • Praying now, Em T. Thanks for sharing this need with us.

  • Hollybell MN

    You know…..I believe this is true, The scripture stated. I can not explain it, but I would rely on it if I saw any slight evidence after 30 years. I mean, even now most believers hand out words and nothing more from them or God. I don’t understand any of it right now. So far, it is nothing but words. I mean, other woman at church criticized me when I started to cry because I was sooo tired from working full time at night in a hospital after my husband left when I was pregnant for another married woman. I think I would get 3 hours a sleep a night and have to go back to work because I had to provide a home and food for two young boys. I had no family that would help and church people that just said , let me pray for you. No one ever said, Hey, I see your tired out of your mind. Can I take the kids and let you sleep for a few hours. I started to cry at a bible study because I was so tired. This woman I hosted in my home, put me down and said there was something wrong with me because I was soooo tired I started to cry. No one was willing to help, but they were more than willing to refer me to a government agency that I was not eligible for because I worked and made too much money and did not take money from the government. There is something terribly wrong within the American church of comfort. Even now, I give thanks because I did missions work in the past. I have no struggle compared to a woman with children who have a gut full of worms and no resources like we do in the United States. Sometimes I read this stuff and it sickens me how soft we are in our Christianity in the west. God is true and his word is true, I can’t explain right now why it does not pan out like he said. I have my own struggle and with that, but there is no where else to go besides him.There are no excuses or mysterious explanations. There is something more I do not understand right now. I am sure I’ll get many offers to pray. People are willing to pray because there is no cost involved and no one has to really get their hqnds dirty.

  • Erika

    Thank you very much for this post, Paula! All of these were very powerful truths and #8 was kind of surprising to me.
    Thank you!