About Author

Paula Marsteller

Paula no longer tries to catch guys' attention by swallowing live goldfish, arm wrestling, and jumping down flights of stairs. (She's married to a wonderful man now!) She spends her days caring for her son, Iren, and writing for Revive Our Hearts. She's the author of Confessions of a Boy-Crazy Girl: On Her Journey from Neediness to Freedom, and she and her family live in New York. You can catch all her writing on PaulaWrites.com.

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  • Ruth

    I can’t find the vidio !!!!

  • Ruth

    I can’t find the vidio !!!

    • Samantha Loucks Nieves

      We’re sorry about the missing video! We’ve fixed the bug, and it’s there now.

  • Katie

    Where is the video? :O AmnI just not seeing it? Lol

    • Samantha Loucks Nieves

      We’re sorry about the missing video! We’ve fixed the bug!

  • Eva Nelson

    Thank you so much Paula! I might have already known some of these things, but it’s nice to know that you’re not the only one struggling with these kinds of things. The love that boys give isn’t satisfying, but I have heard so many people talking about the love of God so I am going to really try to pursue God instead of boys this time. Thank you so much for all your encouraging words!

  • Ruth

    The vidio took a couple hours to load, but when I saw it I was inspired Thanks sooo Much !!!

  • Judah

    Thank you so much Paula! i needed that!

  • Andro

    Can you write down what we need to do.

    • Dear Andro,

      My two main points in this video were to 1. repent of idolatry, and 2. push out your current boy-craziness with a concentrated pursuit of God. (More details on what that means in the video, of course.)