Christ or Crush? (His Eyes)

I’m so grateful for all of you who left me a comment telling me what you like about your crush. You girls are suckers for eyes! Some of you think brown is gorgeous, some of you prefer blue, but almost all of you are drawn in by them.

Well, if you think your crush’s eyes are magnetic, you should see Christs’ . . . and you will! Learn more here:

(Oh, and if you want to learn more about what I shared, here are some great passages to look up:

  • Rom. 14:10-12
  • 1 Cor. 3:10–4:5
  • 2 Cor. 5:1–10
  • Rev. 1:14
  • Rev. 2:18
  • Rev. 19:12
  • Rev. 20:11–15)

About Author

Paula Marsteller

Paula no longer tries to catch guys' attention by swallowing live goldfish, arm wrestling, and jumping down flights of stairs. (She's married to a wonderful man now!) She spends her days caring for her son, Iren, and writing for Revive Our Hearts. She's the author of Confessions of a Boy-Crazy Girl: On Her Journey from Neediness to Freedom, and she and her family live in New York. You can catch all her writing on

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  • Madison

    Love this series you are doing, Paula! Thanks for your insight! 🙂

    • Paula Hendricks

      Thanks for following along, Madison!

  • M. Rose

    The title made me think of the song from Steven Curtis Chapman: “His Eyes” 🙂 Really pretty song!
    Thank you for your service you are doing here, it is not going unnoticed or unappreciated Paula thank you!:) <3

    • aliyah

      I love that song and a the remixes he’s done of it. 😉 I thought of that, too!

  • Sammy J.

    Loved the video!!!!! 😀

  • Rebecca Brown

    You’re right! I am a total sucker for my crushes eyes. I really enjoyed your segment! I never thought of looking at Christ’s eyes.

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  • sobella

    Thanks so much! I’m sure ALL (or most) of us young ladies are suckers for eyes. And we probably do need to focus more on Jesus Christ. Thanks again!
    God Bless,

  • Grace M.

    I must admit that I am as well a total sucker for my crush’s eyes! But I never thought of it that way. That God’s eyes are flaming fire, and He sees literally everything I have ever done and ever will, all my sinfulness and flaws. Yet He stills loves me just the same. Isn’t our God just sooo amazing?! XD
    Thank you so much for this video series, Paula. It exactly what I’ve been needing. 🙂

  • k.liziel

    My crushes eyes are bright brown and he always gives me this look that makes them even more perfectl lol 😉