Why do you need the church?

posted by Erin Davis on 10/06/09 | Twitter: @ErinGraffiti
Category: Relationships; ; 17 comments

churchIs it possible to be a Christian without going to church? You betcha. Attending church doesn't make you a Christian any more than attending a sporting event makes you an athlete. But is it wise to try to live out your Christian faith without being a part of a church body? No way!

The truth is, you don't need the church in order to be a Christian, but you do need the church.

The Bible gives us many reasons why being a part of a body of believers (a.k.a. church) is critical to our walk as Christians. Take a look.

The church is God's idea.

Jesus first mentions the church in Matthew 16:17–19. Speaking to Simon Peter He says, "Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by man, but by my Father in heaven. And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven; whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven."

Jesus knew what was coming. He knew that His death was eminent and that He needed a way to continue to build His ministry and spread His truth. Through the apostles He established the church.

Jesus is the builder of the church. He has a plan for her and has given her great power (see verse 18). The idea of church wasn't crafted by man but carefully planned for by Jesus Himself.

The church is the foundation of truth.

In 1 Timothy 3:15 the church is referred to as "the pillar and foundation of the truth." God knows that serving Him is rarely easy, and He's given us the church as a place where we can build the foundation for our faith. The church is also designed to be the pillar that holds our faith up, that strengthens and supports it.

The church also serves as the beacon of truth to a world that does not know Jesus. I picture the church like the Olympic torch runner. For centuries God has used the church to spread truth to unbelievers around the world. Over and over He has used the church to point the lost toward truth and to help them build a solid foundation grounded in His Word.

When your faith is weak, when truth is hard to decipher, when living out your faith feels impossible to do alone, or when you need partners in completing the call to point others toward Jesus, you can trust the church to be the pillar and foundation of God's truth.

The church is a place of prayer.

In Acts 12:5 we find the church earnestly praying for Peter in prison. The result was a miraculous escape. In James 5:14 we are encouraged to call upon the elders of our own churches when we are sick and in need of healing. Historically, the prayer efforts of the collective body of Christ have resulted in powerful moves of God.

You certainly can pray for yourself and your own needs, but there is real power in the combined prayer efforts of believers. The church provides the unique opportunity for you to join with others in prayer and seek the prayers of others on your behalf.

The church is a place where God is blessing.

Psalm 84: verses 1 and 4 says, "How lovely is your dwelling place, O LORD Almighty! … Blessed are those who dwell in your house, they are ever praising you."

Our churches are the dwelling place of God. These passages remind us of the blessing of being in God's presence. Can God be found outside the walls of the church? Sure. But because the church is God's plan and because of His great love and purpose for the church, it is a place where He is regularly on the move.

The church is a place of encouragement.

Hebrews 10:25 warns not to give up on church.

"Let us not give up meeting together as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching."

The church is a place of encouragement. Through our churches we can be encouraged to know God better and to follow Him more closely. That encouragement is so vital as we seek to follow Christ despite the challenges and struggles of life.

What do you think? Do we need the church? What other reasons would you give for being a committed member of a church family?

Comments

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    Gabbie
    thanks!!
    on Tuesday, October 6, 2009 at 1:47 am
    Some of my friends from school say that they are christians because they go to church and i have done a pretty poor effort of explaining to them up until now of why going to church cant make you a christian but why it is still necessary as a believer to attend. thanks so much for this article. i will definately be sharing it with some of my friends.
    Roxy
    love:)
    on Tuesday, October 6, 2009 at 11:18 am
    I love going to church.
    To me church is like family.
    every one there treats you like there younger sister or the daughter or grand daughter.
    Church is not just being a christian and saying it.
    It to let you meet new people who love the things you do.witch is God:)
    Andrea Wulf
    church
    on Tuesday, October 6, 2009 at 12:50 pm
    You may not like the church you are going to but it is where God has put you and you have to accept the decision God and maybe your parents have decided. It may not seem that the church is helping you out. But just think are you listening to the sermon or are you teting you bff the whole time. You won't get anything out of church if you don't listen so i challege myself mostly but you guys also to listen to what your pastors and others have to say cause you will atleast get one good thing out of church.
    Elise
    Re:
    on Tuesday, October 6, 2009 at 2:43 pm
    Hey yal', church is so important to me because it is where I can tell people what I am struggling with. they will understand me. It lifts my spirits on a cloudy day and even though I am homeschooled, I am there at least 50% of my week:) My youth group has taken me under it's wing and it helps me with things I am struggling with. I love CHURCH!!!!!!!!!
    Thanks for the post Erin and thank you my CHURCH!!!
    Sarah Paige
    I Love Church!!!
    on Tuesday, October 6, 2009 at 4:04 pm
    I have to admit that I am a bit of a church-aholic. I'm addicted!=) I also think that it's important to go to youth group too. I love youth group because it's a place where I can connect with my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ and we can hang out in a more relaxed enviorment. I could go on and on about how great church is, but we need to remember that it's all about Jesus, not our wonderful churches.
    Breona:)
    Church.
    on Tuesday, October 6, 2009 at 5:48 pm
    yah I tottally think we need church..... but my mom found out i was cutting again and might not let me go to youth group. which is pointless bcuz it helps me????????
    Erin Davis
    Breona
    on Wednesday, October 7, 2009 at 1:48 pm
    I am sure that your mom is acting out of desperation. As a mom myself, I can't imagine finding out that my kiddo was cutting. Try to put yourself in her shoes. She is likely very scared for you and feeling helpless. She is probably trying to find something that will is important enough to make you stop.

    The Truth is, you don't need church. You need Jesus. Church is a way to help us know and serve Jesus better. Even if you are cut off from church for a while, you can still get better because Jesus is the bottom line answer for the hurt that is causing you to cut.

    In the meantime, check out his article on how to respond to your parents when you don't agree with their decisions.

    http://www.liesyoungwomenbelieve.com/index.php?id=340

    Erin
    monica
    please help!
    on Wednesday, October 7, 2009 at 11:47 pm
    I totally agree that every christian needs to go to church. I have always felt the lack of other christians to talk with. But one thing about the new testament church alot of people forget about is that when one member is consistently violating God's commandments they would rebuke him and give him another chance. If he kept it up he would be kicked out of the church. That way they kept as many unbelievers as possible out of the church. The church is a gathering of believers not a mission outreach. I can't tell you all the bible verses about it because I don't have the bible handy right now. And that is why my family and I have never been able to find a church. How can you attend a church where most of the people willfully disobey God's commandment.(if you ever try to mention it they will assure you they don't think it very important) and how can light have fellowship with darkness. you all have to admit there are very few people who really are seriously living a godly life. Wide is the gate, but narrow is the way and FEW there be that find it. Especially the last hundred years I think there is less and less christians out there.
    And don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that I'm looking for a sinless church -- we make plenty of mistakes, but I can't help noticing the general attitude of the churches nowadays is to not get too serious, go to church every sunday but live like the world the rest of the week. I don't mean to start an argument but I'm just having such a hard time lately. I so want to have fellowship with other christians besides my family but nobody else cares or wants to talk about the Bible so I always feel like they are not true friends because I can't even talk to them about what is most important to me.
    Laura
    Monica
    on Thursday, October 8, 2009 at 1:44 pm
    Monica,
    I can completely relate to what you are saying. I am a youth pastor's wife and have many times been frustrated with the wide spread complacency in the church. Each time I find myself getting so frustrated with that fact, the Lord speaks to my heart again with encouragement and conviction. These verses have healed my bitter heart over and over:

    "'Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?" " On hearing this, Jesus said, 'It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.' For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.'" Matthew 9:11B-14
    You sound like a girl who is serious about her relationship with the Creator. I will pray that the Lord would speak to you about this. I know that it seems futile sometimes to attend a church that seems to have so many things wrong with it, but churches are full of people and we are all unworthy to be in the Lord's presence. You are needed in the local body of Christ. Your faith, your strength, the gifts that God gave just you! I can't tell you how many times I have felt the same way. Do not give up Monica. There is no such thing as a custom fit church. Praying for you!
    chloe
    Re:
    on Friday, October 9, 2009 at 12:00 am
    I was practically born in the church. For as long as I can remember we've gone to church and have always arrived 30 minutes early because my dad thinks that it's important to make sure that your on time for church.I think that we need church because it's good to be around other people who believe in the same things that you do. Also the thing that I like about church is after you've been going there to the same church for a while you know everyone and everyone knows you and suddenly it just seems to become natural to go.
    Erin Davis
    Monica
    on Friday, October 9, 2009 at 1:40 pm
    Can I just be honest with you and let you know that your comment really frustrates me? I can find no Biblical evidence for your claim that the church is supposed to keep unbelievers out. Quite the opposite.

    In the book of Acts we get our clearest picture of what the New Testament church was like. I love the passage found in Acts 2:42-47.

    " They devoted themselves to the apostles teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miraculous signs were done by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. Selling their possessions and goods, they gave to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved."

    What was the result of this church? Verse 47 tells us that because they gathered together and prayed and sought God's will together people were saved daily and added to their number. That's evangelism and that is the mission of the church.

    If you can find Biblical evidence to the contrary, I'd love to hear it.

    And yes, there is such a thing as church discipline. That is what you mentioned in your post. But it is not to be used as a means to weed unbelievers out.

    Matthew 18:15-20 is where we find the pattern for dealing with sin that you mentioned. It calls for a gentle course of action against a brother (another Christian) who has sinned against you.

    Galatians 6:1-2 addresses the matter again. "Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."

    What are we to do when our fellow Christians are caught in sin? Restore them gently. Not with the judgment and condemnation I sense in your comment.

    Yes, there are sinners in our churches. I am one of them! Paul called himself the chief of sinners and yet he spent years lovingly instructing churches how to follow Christ. If we stay out of church all together because there is sin there, we are missing out on so much.

    Hebrews 10:25 urges us, "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching."

    I urge you to rethink your position in light of God's Word. He loves the church even though he is very aware that sinners are there.

    Also, please be careful about judging your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ so harshly. Just because there is sin present in their lives doesn't mean that they don't honestly love Jesus and desire to serve Him. We are unable to shake our sin nature this side of heaven.

    In Matthew 7:2-4 Jesus said, "For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

    Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?"

    This passage is about how we judge other believers. Jesus said not to judge the sin in the lives of our brothers (other Christians) and ignore the sin in our own lives. I don't know you, but I know you have sin in your life.

    1 John 1:10 says, " If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word has no place in our lives."

    It is not my desire to be hard on you. But I do desire to point you toward God's Truth. The idea that church is for perfect Christians and that the fact there is sin present in our churches justifies avoiding church altogether is way off base from what we find in God's Word.

    I strongly encourage you to seek out a church where God's Word is being preached, believers love one another and esteem each other well, and preaching the Good News to the lost is a key goal.

    Erin
    monica
    to erin and laura
    on Friday, October 9, 2009 at 11:55 pm
    Dear Laura,
    Thank you for your encouragement. I am really gonna try to look for a place to fellowship but it will be kind of hard because my family does not feel the same way as me about it and I LOVE my comfort zone:) but I guess I got to think for myself. Thanks again. I'm sure there are sincere christians out there. I forgot that my cousin just became converted and we talk about a lot of things and it's so encouraging. I guess I was just blue:(
    Thanks again:)

    Dear Erin,
    I'm sorry if I came over to you that I was judging. I totally didn't mean to at all. I am NOT good at putting my thoughts on paper. These people that I'm talking about that are not serious about what they believe are people that I really really really love. I don't have any desire to judge them. The reason why I sound frustrated is because it makes me so sad because I don't dare to say anything about the things closest to my heart because they won't understand and get uncomfortable. Especially since I don't know for sure if they even realize where they are going wrong so I want so bad to tell them. But I have decided to not because if they are really God's children he will show them. Anyway, Judging is the last thing on my mind, believe me.
    The church that you described in your last paragraph I have not found so far. Obviously it's different in the area where you live.
    I also did not say I was just looking for a perfect church nor did I say that the presence of sin in the church justified me for not going there. I said I was NOT looking for a sinless church. I am just looking for a church where the aim is to praise God and fellowship with oneanother,etc. Not just to sit during the sermon with your mind somewhere else or texting on your cell constantly and then you go home to your real life which is totally conformed the world. The world is laughing at those churches because they're like: what's the difference between them and me? That is what the churches that I know about are like. I'm sure there are christians in between but maybe they should come out. Evil communications DO corrupt good manners, we can't deny that. Personally I find that when I associate with complacent people I often wake up to a shock that I am becoming less and less concerned about following the Lord when it's almost to late. It so easy to get dragged down and I'm afraid of that. Probably too afraid. About the church being made of unbelievers, please read 2 corinthians 6:14-18. I will update you when I find more. In acts 2 where it says " and the Lord added to their number daily,etc. Doesn't mean they were in the church before. They probably came to the church because they were seeking. Yeah, then definately we should invite them in our church. 2 Thesselonians 3:14 says "and if any man obey not our word by this epistle,note that man, and have no company with him, that he may be ashamed, yet count him not as an enemy but admonish him as a brother." I don't see how we are supposed to have no company with him if he is in the church. He will never be ashamed if we allow him to keep worshipping with us. Now I'm not talking about failures and sins and stuff like that. I mean if they are living an ungodly life continually and not heeding any warnings or exhortations. Also in Acts 2 it says glad and sincere hearts. It's not too hard to see if someone is sincere or not. If I knew a church like that description I would hesitate not to go there. I hope you will take the time out to read this carefully as I read your post carefully and will consider it. I really have been thinking lately my way is not right, so I will start looking instead of giving up, but I can't join a church when I feel that God is not present and the majority of people don't care if he isn't because they don't feel the need for him. They just go to church because that's what their parents did and that's what there friends are doingetc. I hope you will understand me. I don't want to come over as a mean judgemental self righteous jerk:) Looking forward to hearing from you!

    Cheers, Monica
    Natalie
    Erin
    on Saturday, October 10, 2009 at 10:31 am
    I read your post about what Monica said and yesterday i read 1 Corinthians 5, i'm sure you know the passage, but that really confused me; after reading the passage again could you explain to me why you said what you did, Thanks, in Christ, Natalie
    ????you can call me utau though
    :)
    on Sunday, October 11, 2009 at 2:34 pm
    you dont NEED the church but you should go to it anyway,growing closer to god with friends is an very awsome thing
    Erin Davis
    Natalie
    on Sunday, October 11, 2009 at 3:04 pm
    I don't understand our question. Could you please clarify?

    Thanks!

    Erin
    scaniagirl
    Natalie and Monica
    on Monday, October 12, 2009 at 12:39 am
    Yes! I Cor. 5 does make things quite plain to me. Fornication (sex before marriage) - that's one sin that many proffessing Christians that we find in churches are practicing. There are many other sins that are accepted in most churches. "Purge out therefore the old leaven..." "Let us keep the feast ... with the unleavened bread of SINCERITY AND TRUTH." Paul says, "Put them away from among yourselves." There is a difference, I believe, between open sins that are clearly condemned in the Word of God, and things that may be differences of opinion and matters of one having less light than another.
    Another thing we find in the new testament is judging. There is a kind of judging that is commended. Paul says in the same chapter, "Do not ye judge them that are within(the church)?" How can we decide which groups we should belong to if we can't judge? I think that judging whether a person is saved or not is none of our business. But judging whether people are acting the way God wants His people to, and whether we should become part of them is a matter that we must judge.
    Maybe for some of us this means that there is no church that we can be part of. There is a time when "The love of many will grow cold," and "Will there yet be faith found on the earth?" But where there are two or three gathered in His Name, there He is in the midst of them. This is NOT an ideal situation I know by experience, but God can keep us in any situation. I hope this helps some of you. This is a difficult issue, but that's what this blog is for. :) Discussion, discussion :) :)
    Natalie
    re: Erin
    on Monday, October 12, 2009 at 5:03 pm
    Sure, i guess that wasn't so clear. What i meant was that you said that we should restore them gently and not be harsh with them, but 1 Corinthians 5:11 says that we should not even eat with a anyone who calls himself a believer, yet still keeps sinning in horrable ways! I know that we all still sin as believers in Christ and God still loves us, but doesn't God still love those people too? I'm probably missing something really obvious here and would love it if you would explain it to me, thanks,
    In Christ,

    Natalie <3

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