Yada, yada, yada!

Myself posted by Dannah Gresh on 11/16/09; 11 comments

I'm writing a book right now. I need you guys to pray for me. In all of my writing, I've never written one that means this much to me. It's a message that God has entrusted to me for over eight years and asked me to let marinate before I started writing. This year I found His release.

It's all about the word "yada." As in "Yada, yada, yada!" You can hardly read that without snickering, can you? Seinfeld has made it a well-known cliché. If you're like me, you translate it, "Blah, blah, blah!" But trust me. This word anything but boring.

The calendar was fast approaching the date of a youth event in Atlanta, Georgia, when I pleaded with God to refresh my heart to impassion teens to live holy, pure lives. I confess I was feeling a bit dried up.

A few days later I was reading Genesis when I noted the familiar passage that claims that Adam "lay" with Eve. Well, I was fairly certain this wasn't as passive as it seemed, so I grabbed my Hebrew dictionary. The word for "lay" was, in fact, yada ... as in "Yada, yada, yada!" (You'll never hear that the same again, will you?) This Hebrew word  for "sex" means "known, recognized, understood, respected."

 Yada is not the only word the Bible uses for sex. In Genesis 19:33 we find that in desperation to carry on the family name, Lot's "older daughter went in and lay with [her dad]." Yuck! The Hebrew word for "lay" in this instance is sakab. It means "to exchange bodily emissions." It's a mere physical exchange.

Not all sex is the same.

In your quest to discover the truth, remember that. What you see on "The O.C." and other popular television shows isn't God's plan for your sexual life at all. In fact, His plan is so big that He has yet another use for yada in the Old Testament. You see, it's used nearly 900 times!

The word is used both in reference to a man and wife having sexual intercourse and—get this—in reference to a person being in deep fellowship with God.  The book of Ephesians calls God's comparison of His relationship with us to marriage a great mystery. But when our marriage relationships are pure and free from sexual sin, they have so much intense passion in them that they are the closest thing on this earth that God can find to help us understand His passion for us. That's pretty heady stuff!

Let's not stop short with sakab. Let's give this world a picture of our God's great love—"to know, to be known, to be deeply respected."

 

 

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    MammoWmn
    Yada
    on Monday, November 16, 2009 at 10:23 am
    Wow, very enlightening and eye opening stuff! Can't wait to read the book! Thanks for your wonderful and Godly insights.
    Heidi
    Re:
    on Monday, November 16, 2009 at 11:50 am
    I've never thought about it that way! Thanks for the article! It got me thinking!
    k
    cool
    on Monday, November 16, 2009 at 1:11 pm
    this is so awesome to know what that word really means. and im happy to know that god thinks of us as well respected. because these days guys my age think that sex is just a joke. and not something scared to be shared with their wives. which really makes me mad.
    Elaina
    Cool!
    on Monday, November 16, 2009 at 1:47 pm
    Well, I don't think I'll ever be able to say that word without blushing now!
    Seriously , though, I never thought about how sex and our relationship with God are kind of similar. Very interesting!
    rachel
    YES!
    on Monday, November 16, 2009 at 3:14 pm
    I think it's awesome what you do!! I am currently reading lies young women believe, and love what you do!! Sex is way to freely given in our society.
    Cierra
    Yada!
    on Monday, November 16, 2009 at 3:30 pm
    Whoa is all I can say. I never thought about it that way.
    cowgirl
    wow
    on Monday, November 16, 2009 at 9:53 pm
    That is news to me! I'll never be able to think of that word the same again!! how did it get into circulation??
    Sophhhh
    :)
    on Tuesday, November 17, 2009 at 10:02 am
    i am reading the book now, its amazing its life that i have never thought about from their prespective :) God really has spoken to me throughout my study! <3 that book
    Gods Jewel
    COOL!!!
    on Tuesday, November 17, 2009 at 4:35 pm
    that is so interesting. i never thought of it that way.
    love it <3
    can't wait to read your new book your writing GOOD LUCK! :)
    Abby
    Yada
    on Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 6:03 pm
    I was at both chapels you did at Cornerstone in Grand Rapids, Mi. (Although I'm not yet in college I came with a friend of mine who goes to Cornerstone, a year ago both of us and some other young women went through your and Nancy's lies young women beleive. So when I heard you were coming to Grand Rapids. I said " I have to go! I've always wanted to hear her speak since I did her Secret Keeper Girls, awhile ago " )
    You did a GREAT job both days! I learned allot. And I must say one of the most interesting things you talked about was Yada.
    I am supper excited to read your book!!!! I will be praying for wisdom for you as you write it. Good luck!
    sls
    Wow
    on Thursday, December 10, 2009 at 1:47 pm
    Great Thoughts!
    You really got me thinking. Love is about so much more than the physical aspect. Thanks a lot.

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