What's your New Year's resolution?

Myself posted by Erin Davis on 12/31/09; 34 comments

Yesterday, I challenged you to resolve to put God's truth into action in 2010. I gave you five action steps based on the truths Nancy and Dannah write about in Lies Young Women Believe. New Year ahead

Here are eight more ways you can live out God's truth in 2010.

1. I will worry less about my circumstances this year.

God's truth says, "When I am afraid, I will trust in you" (Psalm 56:3).

The Bible is full of promises that God can be trusted to provide for us. When you feel fearful or anxious about your circumstances this year, remind yourself that God has never let anyone down and He is not going to start now!

2. I will turn my problems over to God instead of trying to handle them on my own this year.

God's truth says, "But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong" (2 Corinthians 12:9–10).

You will not face a problem in 2010 that is too big for God to handle. When you are weak, He is strong. When your tank is empty, His is full. When you have no resources of your own left, His resources are still overflowing! No matter what you will face this year, His grace is enough for you. Lean into that truth, and let it change how you respond to the circumstances that surround you.

3. This year, I will receive God's forgiveness for my past sins.


God's truth says, "But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin" (1 John 1:7).

God's Word promises us that there is no sin too big for God to forgive, but so often say we are unable to forgive ourselves. If God says we're forgiven, how can we not forgive ourselves? Resting in the forgiveness that God has already promised allows you to live in freedom instead of bondage.

4. I will do what it takes to overcome a sinful habit this year.

God's truth says, "For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin—because anyone who has died has been freed from sin" (Romans 6:6–7).

God's truth is that you do not have to sin and every sinful pattern in your life can be overcome by the power of Christ living in you. That doesn't mean that overcoming sin doesn't often take work. You may need to confess your sin to a Christian adult or pastor, recruit an accountability partner, or remove a habit or relationship that has become a stumbling block in order to stop a sinful habit in your life. But God's Word promises that you can receive freedom. Believe that truth, and then do what is necessary to remove sin.

5. I will let go of the things in my past that are holding me back this year.

God's truth says, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!" (2 Corinthians 5:17).

You don't have to carry the baggage of your past. The ways you have been wronged and the ways you have wronged others don't have to be hindrances. You can let them go and live like a new creation!

6. I will turn to God's Word first when I need help and advice this year.

God's truth says, "The law of the LORD is perfect, reviving the soul. The statutes of the LORD are trustworthy, making wise the simple" (Psalm 19:7).

The Word of God is alive and powerful. You can depend on it to change your life, deliver you from bondage, reveal His will for your life, and give you wise guidance. Instead of running to others first for advice this year, dig into God's Word.

7. I will embrace a God-sized challenge this year.

God's truth says, "I can do everything through him who gives me strength" (Philippians 4:13).

God has not commanded you to do anything that He will not give you the grace to do. That means, for example, that


8. I will accept responsibility for my actions this year.

God's truth says, "The soul who sins is the one who will die. The son will not share the guilt of the father, nor will the father share the guilt of the son. The righteousness of the righteous man will be credited to him, and the wickedness of the wicked will be charged against him" (Ezekiel 18:20).

You are responsible before God for your behavior, responses, and choices. You may not be able to control the things that happen to you this year, but you can control how you respond to the things God allows to come into your life. Making the choice to stop blaming others for the negative patterns in your life and to assume personal responsibility for your own choices will free you to obey God regardless of your circumstances.

Which of these action steps will you add to your list of New Year's resolutions? Leave us a comment and tell us about it. (And be sure to check back Monday for eight more action steps based on God's truth!) 

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    Paulina Licon
    Re:
    on Thursday, December 31, 2009 at 3:50 am
    I found your blog yesterday and I'm very glad I did. I totally going to use this and do a poster for my room to be a good reminder.
    Elaina
    Re
    on Thursday, December 31, 2009 at 10:48 am
    I would like to try all of those, but if I had to pick, I guess I'd say either overcoming a sinful habit or embracing a God-sized challenge.
    Danielle
    Re
    on Thursday, December 31, 2009 at 11:14 am
    I would say all can apply but forgiving myself for past sins,or letting go of things in my past that are holding me back.Would be good to start with...
    Maddi
    my one month of peace...
    on Thursday, December 31, 2009 at 11:19 am
    okay I really love God but with my friends and all its hard to keep my focus solely on him. So in january of 2010 i am going one month drama and boy free. best of all, 3 of my best friends are doing it to! ps...i got this idea out of dannah and nancy's book!
    Natalie
    Thank U
    on Thursday, December 31, 2009 at 12:08 pm
    Thanks for these terrific New Year resolutions! I've never really taken my other new year resolutions seriously before, but i will ask God to help me with these because there is no way that i could accomplish them on my own,
    In Christ with love,
    Nat
    God's Girl
    weight problem!!!
    on Thursday, December 31, 2009 at 12:27 pm
    I'm 14 years old, am 5"6 tall and weigh 115 pounds, I don't think I'm fat, but I feel that I'm chubbier than i need to be. I didn't always think this but I've met 4 new girls at my youth group and they are not anorexic or bulimic at all, they eat a lot of food,we all do but they are all around 5"10ish and weigh 100ish pounds, is that normal or is my weight normal, cause I'm a Christian and and i know that my body is the temple of God and so i don't want to be overweight ( and i don't want to look overweight too) I would love some advice......
    Kristen
    New Years
    on Thursday, December 31, 2009 at 1:19 pm
    God has shown himself in big ways this year!! He has done his job, so this year Im doing mine! Now that Im a Christian and Im not afraid to look abnormal to my old friends...im going to be bold for Christ and start reaching out to them In BIG ways!! So Im taking on a God-sized challenge!! Thanks Erin
    Steph
    .
    on Friday, January 1, 2010 at 11:11 am
    I need to turn my problems over to God instead of trying to handle them and stop worrying about my problems.

    AMEN to all of these! So powerful. I can almost see chains braking and lives changing just by reading them!

    We don't have to live in bondage! God has made us free!
    Lindsey
    @god'sgirl
    on Friday, January 1, 2010 at 4:30 pm
    um, you're not overweight whatsoever. Don't compare yourself to other girls either. that never helped anyone.
    Elaina
    To God's Girl
    on Friday, January 1, 2010 at 9:07 pm
    You are soo not fat! Trust me, I'm 5' 5" and weigh 130 and everyone's telling me I look not just "non-fat" but slim and trim (even though I don't feel like it, but then again - does any girl?)! Trust me, you're just fine! It's great that you're more worried about taking care of God's temple rather than just trying to look like everyone else! You're better than me!
    Marissa
    Amen
    on Friday, January 1, 2010 at 9:43 pm
    I really need to hand things over to God instead of doing them on my own. I tend to mess up somehow every year and I hope and pray that this year will be different. I just got on your site recently and I hope I will grow in my spiritual life.
    Syra
    Resolutions
    on Friday, January 1, 2010 at 10:34 pm
    hmm...which resolution do i adopt?All of them...including the five in the previous post=)=)so true...

    happy new year everyone...
    alyssa
    re. God's girl
    on Friday, January 1, 2010 at 11:37 pm
    Hey i read ur comment...your weight is perfectly normal even a little under according to bmi.....if you feel like you are chubby you are just being a girl lol...i mean almost every girl has issues with how they lookn =)....the problem is we dwell on it a lot....i used 2 be anorexic and it was the worst thank God i am better. I know you do not want to be anorexic but u might fall into a trap like i did. NEVER compare yourself to others everyone has different bone structures small boned medium boned large boned ext...the girls at ur bible study might be small boned u even sound like ur small boned =). Weight is really irrelative as long as you eat healthy and exercise you'll be fine.....it is awesome that you want 2 treat ur body as a temple for God ;) Also u r still growing if u have a little baby fat it just means you are getting taller developing womenly assets and stuff b content with who u are. remember ur looks do not determine who u r but ur relationship with Jesus, and ur personality. bye
    alyssa
    resolution
    on Friday, January 1, 2010 at 11:47 pm
    hmmm......i think my resolution will be to show more love 2 those that i have a HARD time getting along with.....I usually do not make new year resolutions but this year i am.....I also want to stop dwelling on myself and turn my focus to others. This summer 09 i had a chance 2 go on mission trip to help in Nepal God showed me during that time that i need to give up myself 4 others so this year and the following years i am going to try my hardest 2 do that.

    I thought i would throw out some fun new year resolutions lol i me and my friend plan to have a mud fight no matter what this year cannot wait (I know i am 18 still have not grown up....NEVER will), do something extremely out of ordinary that i have not already done =D.....sing dance and laugh more.....run a marathon........learn some funny dance........hmmm.........and other stuff i cannot think of
    monica
    RE: God's Girl
    on Saturday, January 2, 2010 at 3:49 am
    for starters YOU ARE NOT FAT!!! But yes you are right about your body being the temple of the Holy Spirit, and yes you do want to be healthy! I would suggest you go to kidshealth.com and then go to the teens area, in the search type BMI (body mass index) you will find a little chart thing and you input your weight, height, and a few other things and it calculates if or if not you are fat. It is not perfectly accurate but it has helped me alot. But most importantly remember, God made you just the way you are and just because you dont weigh as little as your friends do dosent mean you are overweight or chubby or whatever. It simply means God made you different :) if you still think maybe you should lose a little just start by not taking seconds! its that easy, hope this helps

    Monica

    Erin this is the one i wanted posted not the other one :) sorry
    dreamer
    new year, oh no!
    on Saturday, January 2, 2010 at 3:55 am
    I really messed things up this past year, and I need prayers that I'll be able to do it right this year, and say no to the guy pressuring me for the wrong things... please pray!!
    AERO94
    with Gods help!!!
    on Saturday, January 2, 2010 at 12:55 pm
    these are some more really great resalutions!!! thanks erin and i beleive all of us can do al of these if we ask God for his help we cant do it on our own ut thrue him we can do any thing!! so girls dont go into this trying to do it on your own cause you will fail you need Gods help!!!
    God's Princess
    To: God's Girl
    on Saturday, January 2, 2010 at 7:26 pm
    Hey,my story is probably a little different than yours but at any rate I thought I would share it with you. I am 13 years old and I am 120 pounds;( I started gaining weight when I started going through depression. I started to look at food as comfort food, rather than going to God for comfort. I started to live to eat rather than eat to live. I also realize that my body is the temple of the Lord and do not want to destroy my body. I continue to ask God for His strength to lose weight. My New Years resolution is definitely to lose weight! You should not compare yourself to others. Set goals to please your self and God, not others. At your height, I would not say that 115 pounds is not over weight but it is always good to be watching what your eating and be making good food choices. Anorexic is not a good thing either so don't try to lose weight just so you can look like other skinny girls. So that's my advice to you. I will be praying for you. Try asking God what He thinks you should do.
    livelaughlovegod
    new
    on Sunday, January 3, 2010 at 1:16 pm
    hi im new hre and i read wht you guess are talking about and i think that is really great is anybody here
    livelaughlovegod
    reso
    on Sunday, January 3, 2010 at 1:20 pm
    im trying to read the bible more often because i really never read the bible and its gods word so i think i should read it what about you
    Kaitlynn
    Re:
    on Sunday, January 3, 2010 at 5:52 pm
    Im not going to date for the rest of the school year!!! My best friend and i made this goal during the summer and both of us have stuck to it...I havn't had a boyfriend for 7 months we both decided not to date until GOD brings that special somone into our lives and says its okay for us to date him!!!!!! I also plan on fullfilling all of the goals that Erin has set for us!!!
    lizzy
    stuff
    on Sunday, January 3, 2010 at 8:08 pm
    hey i think you can help me....
    see my problem is i belive in God but dont know or sometimes belive in him i need help becuase i have no idea what to do and i need him but when i pray it feels like im talking to the wall...well help!
    Help
    i need ur advice
    on Sunday, January 3, 2010 at 9:58 pm
    i also think i'm overweight i weigh 91 pounds and IM 13!!!! every one tells me i'm so skinny but i don't know i'm not every time i look in the mirror i see me so fat and my best friend is the same age and weighs 83 pounds PLZ HELP
    edavis
    Enough with the weight posting!
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 7:48 am
    Okay girls, how did a post about choosing to live out God's Truth prompt you to start posting your weights and asking each other if they are okay? I feel like you've missed the point.

    Comparing your weight with the weights of others or asking other people (like strangers online) to affirm that your weight is okay is not embracing God's Truth about your value and beauty. Please stop posting your weights. I will no longer be putting those comments up.

    Please re-read this post, focus on implementing God's Truth and let Him be the ruler that you use to measure your worth.

    Erin
    monica
    Re:
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 3:43 pm
    My new year's resloution is to trust God for my future. I tend to worry alot about my future. and also I want to be steadily happy every day and not let little things like traffic or tim hortons making my coffee wrong tick me off:) and I also want to stop complaining to my friend. Should I apologise to her about complaining so much the last couple months or should I just stop and not say anything about it?
    Kaitlynn
    Re:
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 7:20 pm
    lizzy,i think you should ask God to help you find him and remember God always answers our prayers it may not be how or when we want them answered, but trust God he will answer them somhow. Just let all of your trust fall onto him yes this may be hard, it was for me when i first became a christian, but now i am soooooo glad i did things aren't as hard for me now.......and be sure to follow Erin's challenge for us i think if you do you won't think your praying to a brick wall!!!!
    Steph
    re: monica
    on Thursday, January 7, 2010 at 9:15 am
    I'm kind of facing a similar issue. What kind of complaining are you talking about? I would pray that if God wants you to apologize to your friend, that He would show you that and give you the courage. and it's hard. (at least for me - its extremely hard for me to apologize. it shouldn't be but it is.) one week i didnt even take communion because of the warnings in the Bible about being right with others before partaking.
    so i called my friend and i told her about some things that were problems in her friendships, and admitted some things i had fallen short on. it was a bit awkward. it was uncomfortable. but i had closure afterwards and i knew God wanted me to do it.
    so I encourage you to apologize, if God leads you.

    also thats a great resolution to not let the little things upset you =)
    Payton
    ?
    on Thursday, January 7, 2010 at 12:22 pm
    These are good. Keep up the good work cause these are very important things.

    Just make sure, guys, to remember what's really important. I urge you(and myself) to focus more on our relationships with God instead of weight,boys, etc....

    Just wanted to say i will def be taking this stuff seriously this year.
    Heather
    Long time no talk
    on Friday, January 8, 2010 at 11:32 am
    It's been a while since I've visited this blog. Maybe over a month. During that time I sorta gave up on God and purifying myself and everything. I felt so hopeless like no matter how hard I tried I could never make any progress. Well break time is over!
    Resolutions:
    1. Take the 30 day challenge! Make it last all year!
    2. Respect my mom, even though she makes wrong decision often.
    3. Stop cursing.
    4. Stop giggling when my girlfriends joke about sex with their boyfriends.
    5. Don't spend so much time with Harry Potter.
    6. Stop masturbating!!!!!!!!! *blushes slightly
    girl lovin' the Lord 4 ever
    Re:
    on Friday, January 8, 2010 at 6:24 pm
    I have so many New Year's Resolutions! But there is one thing that I have realized, to many times when I set goals for myself "I" try to make them happen. What I have realized is I can't change anything about myself, BUT I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME! I need the Lord's strength to help me through each day.
    edavis
    Heather
    on Saturday, January 16, 2010 at 2:35 pm
    Hey girl, I am so glad you've come back to the blog. I've missed seeing you on here.

    I am sorry it has taken me so long to comment, but I just wanted to remind you that you are going to need to find your strength in Christ in order to accomplish the things on your list. This is especially true when it comes to overcoming sin.

    We are powerless to overcome sin on our own. But through His blood shed on the cross, Jesus provided a way for us to be free from sin.

    Romans 6:5-7 says, "If we have been united with him like this in his death, we will certainly also be united with him in his resurrection. For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be done away with,that we should no longer be slaves to sin— because anyone who has died has been freed from sin."

    Because of Jesus, we no longer need to be slaves to our own sin.

    I am so proud of you for working to remove sinful patterns and behaviors from your own life. But don't try to do it in your own strength. Depend on Jesus every step of the way. I know that He will faithfully provide all that you need.
    Jen
    thanks for the encouragement!
    on Saturday, January 23, 2010 at 7:26 pm
    all of these resolutions have to do soo much with my life right now! The one in particular is-turning my problems to God, instead of handleing them on my own. Lately, I have been overly stressed about my tasks (especially homework) and have been way too concerned about getting it all done. When really, it has been hurting my relationships with others and with God. Don't get me wrong---your daily tasks are important, but I just get overstressed when I really shouldn't be. So this year, I need to just rest in God more and know He's always by my side:)
    Victoria Josephine
    NY resolution
    on Monday, January 25, 2010 at 9:23 am
    Mine is to focus on homework and boost my grades in school! I also need to work on how I veiw boys.
    monica
    to Steph
    on Thursday, January 28, 2010 at 2:00 pm
    Sorry for not answering so long. I often complain to her about having a hard time making friends and having no boyfriend. I haven't apologized to her yet but I think I will next time we get in the subject. I haven't complained for along time now!!:)

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