Eight Ways to Change in 2010

Myself posted by Erin Davis on 01/04/10; 24 comments

New Year's resolutionsLast Wednesday and Thursday, I challenged you to take 13 specific actions toward living out God's truth this year. Here are eight more steps you can take in 2010 to allow God's truth to change how you live.

1. I will live like the choices I make today will impact my life tomorrow.

God's truth says, "Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life" (Galatians 6:7–8).

The choices you make today will have consequences in the future. Make wise choices today that will produce a good harvest in your life in the future.

2. I will submit to the authority of my parents this year.

God's truth says, "‘Honor your father and mother'—which is the first commandment with a promise" (Ephesians 6:2).

"Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ" (Ephesians 5:21).

When we resist authority, we become more vulnerable to Satan's attacks and to sin. On the other hand, when we willingly take our place under those God has placed in authority over us, including our parents, we are granted God's protective covering. Make the choice to submit to the authority of your parents this year out of obedience to Christ.

3. I will get/stay involved in church this year.

God's truth says, "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching" (Hebrews 10:25).

The church matters to God, and it should matter to you. The Bible describes the church as a body. Every part of the body is needed, including you. If you're not currently involved in a local church, make it your goal to find a church home this year. If you already have a church home, find ways to get more involved and to build up the other members of your local church body.

4. I will seek out a mentor who is a great wife and mother this year.

God's truth says, "Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God" (Titus 2:4–5).

God created woman to be a helper to her husband and a bearer and nurture of life. Marriage and motherhood are God's norm for most women. Embracing this truth is highly countercultural. It can be difficult to find examples of women who are gracefully living out God's calling to be wives and mothers. Find someone near you who is doing these things well, and spend some time with her. Allow God to use that relationship to teach you about His future plans for your life.

5. I will be more concerned about my holiness than my happiness this year.

God's truth says, "Be holy because I am holy" (1 Peter 1:16).

Jesus didn't die so that we could live a life for ourselves and our own pleasure, but so we could be free to live a life that pleases Him. Pleasing Him will sometimes require sacrifices. But any sacrifice we make is temporary and cannot be compared with the joy and fulfillment we will gain in eternity. Only through seeking to be holy can we ever experience true happiness.

6. I will add praise, thanksgiving, listening, and confession into my prayer life this year.

God's truth says, "For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son" (Romans 8:29).

God is more concerned about changing you and glorifying Himself than about solving your problems. With that truth in mind, a balanced prayer life should include more than just asking God to fix your problems. Work to build a relationship with God that is not strictly focused on asking Him to change your circumstances.

7. I will allow God to use difficult circumstances to make me more like Jesus this year.

God's truth says, "And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast" (1 Peter 5:10).

God is able to use suffering to conform you into the image of Jesus. In 2010, make the choice to embrace hard things rather than running from or resenting them.

8. I will focus more on Jesus and less on myself this year.

God's truth says, "He must become greater; I must become less" (John 3:30).

The truth is it's not about you; it's all about Him. The world was not created to revolve around you. It was created to revolve around Christ. This year look for every opportunity to make your life more about serving Jesus and attracting others to Him.

Your life will be radically transformed this year if you make the decision to 1) know God's truth, 2) believe it, and 3) act on it. How will you live out God's truth in 2010? Leave us a comment, and tell us about it.

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    Ëarwen
    Mentor
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 5:52 am
    I disagree about the mentor thing - isn't that taking your mother's place and giving it to someone else? If you HAVE a Christian mother, at least?
    But aside from that, great, great resolutions!!
    Alysia
    Mentor
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 9:13 am
    As a Christian mother, I really want my daughter to have an additional mentor in her life, other than myself. I value my friends who spend time with my daughter and help reinforce what we are teaching at home. It doesn't feel threatening if I know the other mom and approve of her influence.
    Avaron
    Awesome!!
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 9:56 am
    This is the first time I've been to this website after getting the book, and I think that these are great resolutions to make for the upcoming year. I hope everyone tries to apply these to their life.
    Jesus is my KING!!!
    Mentors etc./ to Earwen
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 10:03 am
    Hey Earwen,

    I wanted to respond quickly to you about the whole mentoring thing.... I have a mentor right now and it is wonderful! She, however is in him mid twenties and is not yet married, but she is still an AMAZING example to me. We try to get together and talk and stuff about once a week, but she does NOT take place of my mom. I hope that you can find a mentor of you own and enjoy it!
    LindseyV
    *sigh*
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 12:14 pm
    The very thought of church makes me emotionally exhausted. I tried to get really involved in my last one and it just ended in heartbreak because we moved. Now we're in one with mostly old people, and the youth group I'm not sure about and scared to death of.
    Alyssa
    Re:
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 12:23 pm
    Hmmm.....tis are really awesome resolutions I think that the church one stands out to me a lot. My family and I have left are old church and are in the process of looking for a new one. However since we have left I have not been to church in awhile. So I am going to go to the old church until a new church is found or any church to hear God's word.
    I like the first one a lot too it is easy to do things in the present and believe that they will not effect you later on. That verse can be really scary sometimes if you think about it. However it is a really good reminder.

    The second to the last is also a really good one. My mom is sick and we are unsure what it is. We do not have medical insurance so she does not want it to be checked out. Also my dad got out of the mental hospital he was in for 6 years. He is a schisophrenic. However he seems to be doing well. I do not want to get to close to him again because he probally willend up back in there. God has been teaching me this lesson for a long time to trust him and he will help me grow in my circumstances. This has always been hard 4 me
    Tammy
    Mentor
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 1:03 pm
    I spent years looking for a mentor and thought that I'd not amount to much without one. After looking back God has provided many mentors for me in my journey including a wonderful praying godly mother-in-law. Now I'm put in the pathway of many ladies that He intentionally placed there for me to mentor. So a mentor can be very personal or just gettng to pray for or encourage or bless someone.¢¾
    Marjergod
    Holiness
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 4:06 pm
    I will be more concerned about my holiness than my happiness this year.
    What a change to make. I will working on this one myself. More of Jesus and less of me. Praise God for this one.
    Bree
    New Year's
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 4:36 pm
    Thanks so much for all of your blogs! I just started reading them the other day and they have helped me so much! I am a teen leader at my church and I try to do my best, but only because I felt like I had to. Now, I enjoy getting into God's word. And hopefully, I will continue to get better and better at understanding it. This is one of my resolutions. I am really going to try hard to stick with having my devotions and learning from them as much as possible.
    Steph
    .
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 8:08 pm
    I'm going to work on giving every area of my life to Jesus this year. Not just letting Him into the hallway of my "house" but every single room. I want to be way more in love with Him at the end of this year than I am right now. I want to want Him more than I want anything else, need Him more than anything else. And I want to discover who He really really is.
    lily
    resoloutions
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 8:17 pm
    this is great and a lot of help. I always make new year's resoloutions like: do devotions everyday, get an A in Math, make a certain amount of money for something i have been saving up for,etc., but these resoloutions are much more specific. This is really helpful to me.
    thanks so much!!!!!
    DREAMER
    re:LindseyV
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 9:41 pm
    I have gone through a somewhat similar situation as you. All i can say is that I'll be praying for you and just keep trusting God and moving forward.
    believer
    topic
    on Monday, January 4, 2010 at 9:43 pm
    I am going to work on letting God use difficult circumstances in my life to make me more like Him and not to resent the hardships.
    Hirut
    Mentor
    on Tuesday, January 5, 2010 at 12:46 am
    God has blessed me with an awesome montor I able to look up. Since I meet her my faith has been so much stronger and she got me this book. Love her so
    much:) she is my mamma in Jesus.
    Lydia Detrow
    mentor
    on Tuesday, January 5, 2010 at 11:17 am
    I think a mentor can be your mother. If your mom is a godly lady then I think she definitly qualifies! But I think Earwen is right, we should be careful about replacing our mother with someone else.
    Bridget Brown
    Mentor
    on Tuesday, January 5, 2010 at 9:49 pm
    To say that a mentor replaces your mom isn't correct, everyone is suppose to have people other than their own family to turn to. Jesus set that up at the cross when he told John to Behold your mother and Mary to behold her son. It is a spiritual family, one person who is further along than you that you can aspire to and you will eventually surpass and someone not as far along as you so that you show them by example that you can change and grow. It is about accountability not replacement. It is about growing and not being stagnant. Mentorship can never replace the family that God placed you in on this planet, but when you become a Christian you become a part of a much larger family than that to which you were born. You are born into the family of God!!! This forever changes who you are. Every great person in the Bible had a mentor, and I believe that in order to grow as a Christian and a daughter of God that we have to regularly consult with someone wiser than ourselves(age doesn't necessarily factor in here). I started really understanding this as a need as a Christian woman. I have always been friends with guys. This year I have already asked 4 people to be mentors to me, knowing that all of them can't do it, but THEN AGAIN ask and you shall receive.
    Claire
    prayer life.
    on Tuesday, January 5, 2010 at 11:16 pm
    I have to say number six really made me think... I praise God, Repent to God, I have my prayer requests and, I tell God I will say yes to whatever he wants me to do but I just relized that I don't relly listen to what he wants me to do. I will from now on and that will change my 2010! thank you soooo much!!
    Payton
    Thank you
    on Thursday, January 7, 2010 at 12:35 pm
    These are still great! Anyway, erin, i just wanted to say thank you for what you do on here. I think you are a great example for young women.
    edavis
    Payton
    on Thursday, January 7, 2010 at 12:57 pm
    Thanks Payton. You're sweet!

    Erin
    LindseyV
    Re: DREAMER
    on Thursday, January 7, 2010 at 2:24 pm
    Thank you so much, Dreamer! xxx
    boxersrthebest
    i might have an idea
    on Tuesday, January 12, 2010 at 9:23 pm
    i think that it would be great if every once and a while all of us got on here and asked eachother quetions on how we r doing and encourage us to keep our goals (hold eachother acountable) that way when someone is strugling we can encourage and pray for them.
    Kaylea
    RE: prayer life
    on Sunday, January 17, 2010 at 3:36 pm
    I feel exactly the same way! I pray but I never seem to stop and listen to what God is telling me. I am going to start doing that. I will be praying for you Claire.
    Aaliyah
    hey
    on Sunday, February 7, 2010 at 9:49 pm
    i accepted gods free gift of slavation and that is how i changed my 2010
    edavis
    Aallyah
    on Sunday, February 7, 2010 at 11:29 pm
    That is great news! I am so proud of you.

    Erin

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