Who's number one?

posted by Erin Davis on 01/27/10 | Twitter: @ErinGraffiti
Category: Myself; ; 14 comments

number oneIn Luke 22:24–26, we find Jesus teaching His disciples about service.

Also a dispute arose among them as to which of them was considered to be greatest. Jesus said to them, "The kings of the Gentiles lord it over them; and those who exercise authority over them call themselves Benefactors. But you are not to be like that. Instead, the greatest among you should be like the youngest, and the one who rules like the one who serves."

Let's take a closer look at what's going on in this passage. This conversation occurred soon after Jesus washed the disciples' feet. He had modeled service to them right before they sat down to eat the Last Supper. Their feet were probably still damp, and what do we find them doing? Arguing about who was the greatest! Instead of working to out-serve each other, they were duking it out to be number one.

It sounds like things weren't very different in Jesus' day then they are today. Our culture still values being number one. The world loves to teach that in order to be the greatest, you have to be the best. I'm sure you feel plenty of pressure to earn your significance by being the best athlete or the best student or even the best Christian in your church or youth group. But Jesus didn't teach us to put all of our effort toward being number one. The greatest in His kingdom will be those who take time to serve.  

Choosing to serve others was countercultural in Jesus' day, and it remains countercultural today. Living a life of service to others isn't easy. It is difficult to put the needs of others ahead of our own, especially in a world that teaches "it's all about me." Even so, Jesus calls us to follow His example in this way in order to draw people toward Him.

Are you willing to live counter-culturally by serving others instead of yourself? Will you seek to be "number one" in God's kingdom by serving those around you? Tell me about it.

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    Hope
    the future
    on Wednesday, January 27, 2010 at 5:04 am
    It's weird, but I feel that God is calling me to serve in a profession that is all about helping others for a small price. So not likebeing a doctor or something, where people have to pay heaps of money, but doing something where people can receive help for a small cost ... what professions sum this up??
    -thanks!!
    Elaina
    Re
    on Wednesday, January 27, 2010 at 9:00 am
    I just read that a few days ago in my Bible reading! It's a really good reminder, thanks Erin!
    Sarah Paige
    Being Last
    on Wednesday, January 27, 2010 at 9:07 am
    Humility is hard! I always have the hardest time on a youth group retreat. We always seem to be just one or two beds short, so instead of offering to take the mattress on the floor, and instead of helping other girls get their stuff to wherever we're staying, I put myself first. There's a retreat 3 weeks from Friday that I'm going on, and I'm going to put humility into practice.
    Shelby
    wow
    on Wednesday, January 27, 2010 at 12:07 pm
    thats it soo true thanks for the post Erin i needed help in this erea

    Shelby
    Miriam
    Wow
    on Wednesday, January 27, 2010 at 1:25 pm
    that is so true! I think this is an area that we all need some help in. Because everyone is always striving to be the best, and media surely doesn't help. Thank you for posting that, you have really helped to open people's eyes.
    dreambig
    re:
    on Wednesday, January 27, 2010 at 1:32 pm
    I have really been struggling with feeling that I have to be better than my brother in some sport. I need to be number one in a sport. I have really put this pressure on myself. he is very athletic and can pretty much pick up any sport and i just want to be good at something without him knowing more about the sport and being able to play it better. thanks for the post. serving others is better than being number one.
    Anonymous
    Re:
    on Thursday, January 28, 2010 at 9:39 pm
    I certainly struggle with the fact that even if i'm not the best, i'm still loved, i still have friends, all that stuff. i moved a little over a year ago, and before moving i was the smartest in school, the best athlete, etc. Now, in my new school, im not where near being the smartest, and i'm definitely NOT teh best athlete. so i definitely struggle with this.
    Steph
    :)
    on Friday, January 29, 2010 at 10:02 pm
    i love how the disciples were just normal people who loved Jesus, just like us. they weren't "super Christians." they still had questions. they still had faults. they still probably made Jesus want to say "REALLY, guys?".
    peter especially cracks me up. :)
    but they still loved God with all their hearts and wanted to please Him! and a lot of them ended up dying for the faith.
    lydia
    THAT IS SOOOO TRUE!
    on Saturday, January 30, 2010 at 3:20 pm
    that is sooo true thanks for the post it was soo good.
    lydia
    =)
    on Saturday, January 30, 2010 at 3:23 pm
    I loved the post erin. it was soooo good...
    jay
    plz help
    on Saturday, February 13, 2010 at 9:12 pm
    i haveing some trouble with my faith ( like how do i know this is all true and where is the proof etc.) can you plz help me. it would mean alot. I think this is why ive been so unhappy lately .
    Rachel
    re: Hope; the future
    on Sunday, February 14, 2010 at 8:39 pm
    I don't know if you're still checking this page for responses, but 4 anyone else it might work. I want 2 b a teacher. There's not much money in it, and the kids might be unruly, & rebelious, but I think it'll b worth it. I've had some great teachers, & I want 2 b like them. I could have an impact in the kids lives, and kinda be there mentor, know what I mean? You might not like kids, but just a suggestion.
    Rachel
    God bless! : )
    on Sunday, February 14, 2010 at 8:53 pm
    Read your Bible, and try to understand it. If you read it believing it, & not trying to make it being proven to you, God will show you His blessings. God's creation declares His creator. When yu look at a sunset, or a beautiful ocean, u can see that God loves and takes care of you. He's blessed us so much , & given us so much more than we deserve, but no one can prove the Bible is true to you. You have to believe in it yourself.
    Erin Davis
    Jay
    on Friday, February 19, 2010 at 4:36 pm
    First, I wanted to let you know that wrestling with the big questions about our faith is totally normal. Having doubts or questions doesn't mean that you don't have a genuine relationship with Jesus.

    In fact, in Philippians 2:12 Paul writes, Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling."

    Walking out our Christian faith often requires us to work out our salvation as Paul mentioned.

    I would love to help you with the specifics but this is really something best dealt with in person. I would strongly urge you to find a mature Christian who you can talk to about your specific feelings. Find someone who knows God's Word well and can help you discover how God's Truth applies to the doubts you are feeling. A blog simply isn't the best place to have this conversation because faith is a complex issue.

    Do you have a Christian mentor? Is there someone in your church who you could talk to about your feelings? What about your youth pastor, youth pastor's wife, pastor, or pastor's wife?

    Erin

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