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Horse_Rider_Of_96
i love god
on Saturday, March 1, 2008 at 5:31 pm
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i love god so much but sometimes i dont understand why the world revalves around him.but at the same time i understand...because well he created man kind.hmm.i need to understand!any help or comments out there
Allison
thoughts
on Sunday, March 2, 2008 at 5:30 pm
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Horse_Rider_Of_96, here are my thoughts related to your question....
The world does revolve around God, but for a good reason. He created it, and all that is in it! We serve an immensely great, infinite God! It is sometimes hard to understand things, but that is only because we are finite, and HE is infinite. Praise God that He is in control, and not us! This holy, perfect, awesome God deserves all the glory, honor and praise!
y.l.
responding to horse rider
on Monday, March 3, 2008 at 3:13 pm
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Horse rider,
I think it will be a little easier for you if you think of it in this way: We GET to serve and worship our Creator God, not we HAVE to. We have a Perfect Savior. One who will never disappoint us. One that will never forget us, lie to us, abandon us. He Loves us unconditionally. Jesus would have died if you were the only one who accepted Him as Lord and Savior! Wow! That is a God I am priviledged to serve...that I WANT to worship. To me...it's not a chore...it's a GIFT...everyday! Thanks for your tender heart!
Molly
God
on Monday, March 3, 2008 at 6:58 pm
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sometimes i feel like praying and talking to God is stupid. well i grew up learning that if u cant see something then dont believe in it and thats why it is hard for me to believe in God. im a christian and i have asked him into my heart but other times i would rather be on the computer or on my phone then praying and doing devotionals. i need some adivice or comments.
Anita Harpur
Lies Young Women Believe
on Tuesday, March 4, 2008 at 9:41 am
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I was at your Conference this past weekend in Houston Texas which I enjoyed very much. I had purchased this book for my 14 yr old daughter. She started reading it Saturday night with a friend and she was hooked. She loves it. She is a bit saddened by the stories in it but she realizes that these stories are real and feels for the ladies in them. I just wanted to thank both of you for writing this book. Keep up the good work. We need all the help we can get......lol

Anita Harpur
Rebekah
God
on Tuesday, March 4, 2008 at 1:17 pm
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Horse ridder
just pray and God will help you thats whay i do.
Teacher of Teens
Lies Young Women Believe
on Tuesday, March 4, 2008 at 7:54 pm
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I am leading a study of the adult version of this book in our Ladies group at church. When I found there was one for teenage girls I was thrilled. I teach our teen girls on Wednesday nights. We started the study two weeks ago, and I love it. This is such a needed book for every teenage girl and every adult woman out there. Thank you for writing this book.
holly
to: "teacher of teens"
on Wednesday, March 5, 2008 at 12:50 pm
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Hey! I just came across this book and love it! I am 24 so I want to take the younger girls in my church through this book. How do you do it? Is there a study help guide for this book? Or would I read it to them? I am wondering if I should have each of them interested purchase the book to go through... anyway! I would love your feedback if you have a moment!
Kate
responding to Molly
on Wednesday, March 5, 2008 at 11:28 pm
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I know that sometimes it seems like talking to the "air" is a waste of time. But think of praying as talking to your best friend. God is waiting for you to go to Him and stop believing that He isn't worth your time. The Bible says "Blessed is the man who believes without seeing". Just hang in there. You'll get it!
Kate
Responding to Horse_Rider
on Wednesday, March 5, 2008 at 11:36 pm
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Rest assure that God will slowly reveal to you just why we get to celebrate Him. Just keep on praying and growing closer to Him every day.
anna
Stuck!
on Thursday, March 6, 2008 at 2:36 pm
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I was reading LYWB this morning, and as I read that I need to respect/forgive my earthly dad, I was kinda stumped. My dad and I don't have the best relationship ever, and it is really hard for me to look past some of the aweful things that he has done in the past. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do to try the forgiveness path? I have prayed many times about it, and I am just still so stuck.
Liv
understanding
on Thursday, March 6, 2008 at 4:23 pm
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My aunt got me this book cuz I was having some hard times in school, and it has helped, even though I just started it. Me and my mom read it together. I know that God is here, but its hard to stay away from Lies that so many ppl are putting on, and I bet others feel the same way!
Amanda
To Holly
on Thursday, March 6, 2008 at 4:58 pm
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I am 21 and teach our youth girls small group with another leader. We break it up chapter by chapter. So this last week was our first week and we had them read chapter 4 which is the first 4 lies. We ask them to, as they read, take notes, highlight and journal things that stick out to them. We do the same, marking things we want to focus on and questions we want to ask next time we meet. We have done more question oriented studies in the past so this is different in it is mostly discussion. Again we have only done one week but it worked well.

We have 11 girls which is a little too big for a small group in my opinion so I encourage you to keep the group smaller if possible. We are thinking of breaking our group up so it is more intimate. These questions call for an intimate setting and lots of trust and that is easier with a smaller group. We are making it work though, its exciting that they all want to be apart of it.

I would love to answer any more questions!
Holly
To Amanda
on Friday, March 7, 2008 at 1:16 am
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Thanks! I am really happy about having this book in my hands. I am excited about starting out in this, I think God is really gonna use this book! Thanks again for your advice! I look forward to beginning! Sounds like you all have a good system :)
Heather
Reply to "Stuck"
on Friday, March 7, 2008 at 10:36 am
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I had no relationship with my father and was taught to hate him from an early age. It took a while, and a lot of prayer, but I was able to forgive him. I think what helped me the most was all the passages that refer to God as our Father. Once I realized that I HAD a perfect father in heaven and really trusted Him for that, the longing for my earthly father (and the anger toward him) faded. My father passed away the year I became engaged to my husband (I found out through a family member). Because God had been such a wonderful Dad to me while my husband and I were dating, I was able to feel a total peace about never having been able to meet my earthly father face to face. Read those passages and keep praying for forgiveness in your heart...He really is the Best Dad!
Liv
Depressed
on Friday, March 7, 2008 at 3:27 pm
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I was very, very, very, depressed. And I got this book. It started to help, but then the more I read I got more depressed. I dreamed yesterday that I was dying. And I have been crying a lot, I almost broke out crying in school. I just don't know what to do! HELP!
Tisha
Reading the book
on Friday, March 7, 2008 at 5:49 pm
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I really loved reading your book! It opened me up to alot of things that I need to work on in my life. Im really trying to work on the things and the lies and even suggested it to one of my friends! Ive done some things in my life I wish I could turn back but Im learing of acceptance of it and that it is in the past. Hope to hear more from you.
Tisha
respond to 'God'
on Friday, March 7, 2008 at 5:52 pm
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I know how you feel! I do it all the time, I grew up in a Christian home but it still feels weird to me to read the Bible or say prayers like God really isnt listening. Talking to other adults in your church or someone who has experince really helps! They can really help you understand more of what God wants in your life and how to do it to! God bless
need_major_help
Need help!
on Saturday, March 8, 2008 at 9:58 am
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All (or most) of my friends say that they're christian, but they sure don't act like one. I feel I should witness to them and tell them the real deal, but it's so hard! I'm really shy, and what if they think I'm so whatev, you know?
Danielle
~nothing~
on Monday, March 10, 2008 at 4:06 pm
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hey jus wanted 2 say i rilly liked ur book and i'm telling alot of my friends about it. thanks 4 writing it!!! =)
Amanda
to Liv
on Monday, March 10, 2008 at 6:05 pm
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I would suggest that you reread the chapters about Satan and the lies that he tells us. It sounds like you are under a spiritual attack. You were starting to feel better about life thanks to the book and then got down again. Satan does not want you to be seeking God and his best for your life. He does not want you to be happy. I understand how dark and horrible things may seem but they will get better! Keep reading the book and your Bible and pray for salvation from depression. I would suggest talking to someone close to you and seeking help with your depression issue as soon as possible. I will pray that God reaveals himself to you and gives you hope.
anna
Reply to Heather
on Monday, March 10, 2008 at 11:15 pm
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Thanks for your insight. I appreciate your advice a lot. Know I just have to figure out HOW to let the anger go. I'm faced with my dad every day; some days I'm fine, and others I totally spaz out and get mad at him for ramdon stuff. I have totally learned how to let God be my Daddy, and that has been pretty helpful. Still, I can't help but wonder what it's like to have an earthly dad that I love. Is it wrong for me to think that way? My mom keeps telling me that I need to let the anger go, but I don't think she understands. I mean, she taught me how to hate him as I was growing up, and now she wants to teach me differently. AHHH!!!
Kate
to Need_Major_Help
on Monday, March 10, 2008 at 11:27 pm
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I totally understannd what you are saying! I have the same problems with my friends that are such "great Christian people". My advice to you is to just pray for those around you that claim such a title. Someone once told me that we are to preach the Word daily, and only talk every once in a while. What he meant was that we should let our actions be an example for others to follow. So pray that God gives you the wisdom and ability to be a good example to your friends. Do what you know that Lord would want you to do, and who knows what kind of impact you will have on others! So go shine that light girl!! =D And remember, "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Philippians 4:13
lauren
=)
on Tuesday, March 11, 2008 at 1:57 pm
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I really liked this book. it was helpful to me in sooo many ways. I'm actually thinking about starting a bible study with some of the girls in my church and I've been encouraging my friends to read the book.
Lisa
Grest book!!
on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at 9:44 pm
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I havent even finished the book but I already love it!!! Thank you so much for writing it.
My desire is be be a woman after Gods own heart but I find myself so discouraged and so far off. This book helped me to see some of the really big areas that I need to work on.
I hope to hear from you:-)!!
Katie
AHHH!!!
on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at 10:06 pm
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Ok...I'm in need of some advice from my fellow sisters in Christ! I am totally stressed out right now over work and school and graduation stuff and the list goes on. I know that I should be praying, which I am, but I feel like I am too overwhelmed to stop and listen to what God has to say. Does anyone have any kind of remedy for my "condition"? I need to find a way to quit spazing out!!
Lisa
To Katie
on Thursday, March 13, 2008 at 10:17 am
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I know what you mean and I think that possibly you have your priority's mixed up. Maybe you should stop and ask God what He wants you to do. Have you ever concidered that maybe the things you are doing are keeping you from God? He hasnt gone anywhere. Sometimes we need to just stop and spend time with Him and truly listen. How can we expect to be successful if we never stop to look to the Lord we cant do without? I hope I helped you:-)
Lisa
Lonely
on Thursday, March 13, 2008 at 10:20 am
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Lately I have been feeling very lonley and I know that God wants to be my friend even more then I want to be His but I feel like I need "More". Do you know what I mean? Does anyone have any advice?
steph
ha...
on Saturday, March 15, 2008 at 12:26 am
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okay so...gah idk. ik this is gonna sound stupid..but its really something ive been struggling with :/ lately i think ive been putting this guy before God. like hes my best friend...and i love him soo much. but ive been putting him before anything else in my life..family...friends..school...work...God.. my whole life has been revolving aroudn him..liek my mood an the way i act totally revolves around him.... ive been living for him..instead of God...and idk really how to change that...i need help :(
lissy
idk..
on Saturday, March 15, 2008 at 12:31 am
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i haven't really felt close to God lately..like i know Hes there an i know hes constantly pursuing me an He loves me an everything. but like when i pray. i feel like I'm talking to a wall. like i used to feel His presence around me all the time. i knew He was there. but i guess my faith has just been kinda rocky lately. i want so much to have that relationship with Him again. i want to feel Him close to me like i have. i just don't know how... and i was just wondering if any of you had any advuce on what i should be doing. or if im doing somethign wrong! :( or maybe some of you have been through this before... i dont know. :/
Ryley
homosexuality
on Thursday, March 20, 2008 at 9:25 am
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Hi,
I'm actually reading this book right now, but I have a question. I haven't read any of the blog, so sorry if I'm interupting a conversation or something. I go to public highschool and I have three guy friends who are gay. The thing is I've known them since before they were gay and they are really great guys. I told them when they "came out" that I loved them, I respected them, but that I didn't agree with their lifestyle. My mom always says that I should "Love the sinner but hate the sin." The thing is though, God said in the Bible that homosexuality is an abomination. It's really easy to say that all gay people are bad and that I shouldn't ever talk to them again and they're all going to hell, but God also said Judge not and you'll not be judged. I'm just confused on how I should continue with my relationship with these guys.
I don't want to never speak to them again, but I don't know what to do. Is having gay friends a sin?
Lisa
Just Love
on Friday, March 21, 2008 at 11:56 am
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Hey!
All I can tell you Riley is to just love them like Jesus would. You are to be witness to them so if you never talked to them that would be like saying "I'm better then you". Have you talked to your parents about this? Maybe they could help. Remember you life preaches a better sermon then your words do so just be the best friend you can be but also remember that what they are doing is wrong and never tell them it "ok".
Hope I helped:-)
Ryley
homosexuality
on Tuesday, March 25, 2008 at 8:52 am
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Thanks Lisa, you see my parents are the ones who think I should never talk to them again. The thing is I told them I don't agree with them, but I don't know how far I can go with whittnessing to them because they think that "Church peopl" want to send them to hell, and that I'm just an exception. I pray for them though. Thanks again Lisa!
Janessa
THANKS
on Wednesday, March 26, 2008 at 3:57 pm
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I loved this book.iam planning to start a bible study with our young girls in our church.thanku sooo much 4 being concerd with us!
Reader of book
great site!
on Friday, March 28, 2008 at 11:10 am
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Hello all!! I am really enjoying both this site and the book. Both are very encouraging! Here is another encouraging web site for young ladies. Check it out!! http://www.perfecting113.com/
y.l.
Ryley's Situation
on Monday, March 31, 2008 at 7:06 pm
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God said to be "IN the world not OF the world". We are to be witnesses, but not join them. But be careful! Many people listen to some verses without listening to others. The Bible also warns of being friends with those that are opposed to God. 2 Timothey says "..in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves...unholy...without natural affection (homosexuals)...despisers of those that are good (like you said "church people")" he continues " from such TURN AWAY" In other words...don't hang out with them. Psalm 1:1 "Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungoldly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful." We are all going to have sinners as friends...we ourselves are sinners. But there is a difference between sinning and actively LIVING IN SIN. What do you want in a friend? I want someone who will lift me up spiritually...not just tell me what I want to hear. "iron sharpeneth iron" How will friends do that who are not saved (let alone homosexuals ). We are to "exhort (uplift) one another" Hebrews 3:13 "A friend loveth at all times. Prov. 17:17 Can these guys carry out what God says you should be looking for in a friend? Don't believe Satan's lie that you have to be best friends with them so that they get saved. Putting a good apple in a bag of rotten apples doesn't turn the other apples good...after time, the good apple goes bad. This is what God is Warning us. Best advise I have...stay in God's perfect will! I will pray for you, Ryley!
Shaye
Re:
on Monday, March 31, 2008 at 9:03 pm
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I really enjoy reading this book! I have a few chapters left but it has set me free from a lot of different things. It has inspired me to start a little bible study with a couple of friends. I got extra copy of this book to give to a friend. I didn't know who to give it to... but the other day my friend slept over my house and we had our devotional time and we read a chapter together. She was very interested in it and she had asked me if there was any way that i could give her a copy.

I have been having a very rough time staying close to god and i don't really have anyone to open up to. i mean i have my grandparents but i cant always explain stuff to them. i need someone in my situation. I need a friend that is a god like Christian friend about my age to open up to but i just cant find that person. My friends are Christians but they are not very god like. I really need prayer.
Kate
Answer for Ryley
on Tuesday, April 1, 2008 at 11:26 pm
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I totally understand where you are coming from. About a year and a half ago, an old friend of mine had confesed to me that she is gay. Like you, I knew this girl before her "revelation". We had been really close friends for a couple years, and she was very conservative in many aspects of life. At the time that she gave me the news, we had not been as goog of friends as we once were because I was starting to grow in my faith, and she was beginning to go off the deep end. I was rather grossed out by what she had told me, and was not quite sure how to handle the situation. I ended up just walking away from everything we had because she was an unhealthy person for me to be around. I agree with what both Lisa and y.l. had to say. To a degree, it may be best for you to keep your distance so that you do not take a chance being told about your friends' relationships. On the other hand, to continue having a friendship with the guys, you may just be the vessel God will use to help them turn their lives around. I advise you to simply pray about what you need to do. Pray daily for your friends, as well as for yourself. Put the Cross of Christ between yourself and the icky sins of your friends. As for your parents' wish for you to stay away, my mom said (and continually reminds me) the same thing. She thinks that the girl's actions and behaviors are totally inapropriate and would rather me stay away. Maybe you and your parents should sit down together and pray for your friends. I really hope that you get the answer that you need to get throuh this situation. Trust that God is going to lead you to do what is best, and that may mean giving up the friendships or even staying by their side. Either way, He knows what He is doing! =) Heavenly Father, I ask that You will be with Ryley as she seeks for an answer to what she should do. Lead her to do what You would want her to do, and help her to accept whatever answer You give. Help her to do what is right and holy. Give her the stength to endure whatever comes her way. In Jesus precious name I pray, amen. Just keep praying girl!! You'll know what to do!! =) God's Blessings be with you!!
y.l.
Kate/Ryley
on Thursday, April 3, 2008 at 8:23 pm
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I'm praying right with you, Kate! Thanks for your sweet heart! It's so awesome how we don't even know each other, but are joined by prayer as sisters in the Lord!
Jessica
lies young women believe
on Friday, April 4, 2008 at 12:24 am
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Your book is amazing!I read a chapter everynight and I have a journal where I answer all the questions!It is great and Im getting so much closer to God this way!I just finished the section lies about guys and I learned so much. That is one area I tend to stuggle in. Not that I have ever had a boyfriend. Just the fact that I always wanted one but after reading that section it makes me not want a boyfriend anymore. Like it says just wait for the man God as planned for you and you will have a happier and healthier relationship! All the chapters I have read before lies about guys were really good too!They taught me a lot about myself and Gods great love for me. Thank you so much! I even took the vow to wait for the right guy too!!
Kate
Response to y.l. =)
on Wednesday, April 9, 2008 at 10:04 pm
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That is really awesome!! Prayer sure does bring total strangers together quite fast,huh? =)
Maryssa
thank god
on Monday, April 21, 2008 at 3:07 pm
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my dad was a heroin addict since i could remember,
and i think that god just blessed me with so much
since my dad has been praying to god he is better now,
and my grandma just skitted by not getting pancreotic cancer,
and i think that it is all due to god,
so why i am writing this is because he really can help you just pray.
i promise.
esther and deborah
responce to Lisa
on Thursday, April 24, 2008 at 6:23 pm
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Hi lisa,
We know how you feel. even though we dont know you we will pray for you. Also if you want more friends just be yourself an original is always worth more than a copy.
bye
Esther and Deb
responce to anita
on Thursday, April 24, 2008 at 6:29 pm
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hi,anita
i think that you should start a little bible study with your friends.it is a fun way to spend time with god and friends.
you should try it!!!!!
Amelia
The magic scoop
on Friday, May 9, 2008 at 11:09 pm
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What's peoples thought on magic and fantisy? I read stuff like Harry Potter, but know not to take it ceriosly. I love imagining things like elves, and unicorns, and dwarves, and dragon. Is that wrong?
no name
"Gifts"
on Friday, May 9, 2008 at 11:12 pm
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I have "gifts". Not normal stuff, diffecult to come to terms with. I sometimes wish I was normal with out being able to know what happened to my friends over the week or what they'll wear when I see them or perdict things in dreams. People say trying to do stuff like that is satanic, but it just happens! Other people say I can help people and I get really confused! I just want to be normal!
Mia
Re:
on Friday, May 9, 2008 at 11:31 pm
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What do people think about Communion? Do you think Jesus is present in the bread and wine, or that the bread and wine is just a way of remembring Jesus's death, or both? My Dad's an anglican priest, so we believe in the presence of Jesus, but also that remembring is part of it too. What are other people's opinion?
Sarah
RE: Mia
on Sunday, May 11, 2008 at 11:25 pm
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Hey, Mia Yes, I believe that Jesus is really truly present in the Eucharist (Communion). and that the bread and wine actually changes into His Body and Blood! For Jesus, in the entire 6th chapter of John, tells his discipes that "Whoever EATS my FLESH and drinks my BLOOD has eternal life, and I will raise him up on the last day." Check it out. Jesus says it over and over again. Many people don't take Jesus literally here, and believe that He was speaking symbollically, but if you look at that passage again, you'll see that the people present took Him literally and some of his disciples rejected Him because they could not believe.

Yes, I'm a Roman Catholic. LOL.

Oh, and Amelia. I totally get what you're saying. Because I really like fantasy (Lord of the Rings is a favorite of mine) I don't know that Harry Potter is comletely fantasy, with the witchcraft and stuff. Unfortunately, many people (especially teens) get interested in witchcraft after reading Harry Potter. You know, At Barnes and Nobles book store, they were selling How-to wichcraft books right next to Harry Potter books, and that those books are being used by the devil to snare people. I just stear clear of them. (I've done a little studying on this subject, 'cuz I know a lot of people who enjoy reading 'em)
Anonymous
Magic
on Thursday, May 15, 2008 at 4:49 pm
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Christians have God, and sometimes he gives us miracles. Satan uses magic. It IS real. I own a documentry on Harry Potter, and it really shows you how bad it really is! I mean, you think, oh its just a book, but reading it is like practicing witchcraft! My family is a HUGE fan of Lord of the rings. Tolkien was a christian and wrote the books to demonstrate the war between good and evil. I would say just stay as far away from Harry Potter and other similar books and movies. Satan is VERY clever in the way he pulls people into things. But, you can't just rely on other people opinions (including mine!) talk to God about it. Hope this helps.
confused
God
on Friday, May 16, 2008 at 2:32 pm
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Hey everyone!

I kinda have a delema. well i have been raised in a christian home but resently some things have happened to me and i don't understand why god would let it happen. I've been trying so hard just to lean on God for support but keep faling a way. Any sugestions or coments.
Amelia
Okay
on Friday, May 16, 2008 at 9:38 pm
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I get what you are saying, just I still don't get what is so bad about reading stuff, while knowing ahead of time, it shouldn't be put into practice.
Erin Davis
Dear Confused
on Friday, May 16, 2008 at 9:54 pm
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Thanks for checking out our blog. I hope that I can help!

First of all, I wonder if you have had a moment in your life where you gave your heart to Christ. It isn't the same as growing up in a Christian home or being good or not making any "big" mistakes. It is about coming to the point where you realize that you are a sinner, confessing that sin to God and acknowledging that Jesus is the Son of God. If you haven't had that kind of encounter, that is where we need to start?

If you have had that kind of experience, it doesn't mean that your heart won't wander. Your sinful nature is still intact, God's grace is just there to cover it! Especially if you are hurting, it can be easy to run in the opposite direction of God.

Even when we face difficult circumstances, we can know that God is good. He is waiting to comfort you. Psalm 34: 18 tells us that He is close to the brokenhearted. Romans 8:28 tells us that he works all things for the good of those who love Him. In other words he is able to redeem your difficult situation!

I hope this helps! Please let me know if I can do anything else to encourage you.

Erin Davis
LYWB Blog Moderator
Sarah
Harry Potter
on Monday, May 19, 2008 at 7:43 pm
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yeah, a whole lot of people who read Harry Potter use that excuse, and I see where you're comin' from. The question is, though, why would you give the devil another "in" way? I understand that they're really interesting and exciting books, but what if that's just another one of his deceptions to "cover up" the real danger? plus, there are so many good books out there that are wholesome as well as exciting as Harry Potter and won't give Satan a chance to pull you away from God.
Erin Davis
Thoughts on Magic
on Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 11:53 am
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Hey girls!

Your discussion on magic/Harry Potter really got me thinking. I decided to dedicate an entire post to the topic. Check it out! I can't wait to hear your thoughts!

Erin Davis
LYWB Blog Moderator
Jaci
LYWB
on Friday, June 20, 2008 at 5:08 pm
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I love the book LIES YOUNG WOMEN BELIEVE and this website!!! My mom bought the book and she had me read one of the chapters today. It was really great, because i am facing what it was talking about. This is the first time day that I have been on this website and it is so awesome and encouraging!
Chasity
Lies young women believe
on Tuesday, July 1, 2008 at 10:25 pm
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I love this book! Im in a youth group right now and where reading it and its helping me alot. I wasnt really sure about getting saved and everything but this book has changed my mind. I really thank the authors of this book. One of my youth teacher (Lorie) she wonderful. When we go through the book as our youth class she just explains what the book means when we dont know. Im so glad I started the church I did and when I started that church they we're reading it and I just fell in love with it. So thanks!!!!
dorothy scott
relationships
on Monday, July 7, 2008 at 9:56 am
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There is a boy that I just met and he is so sweete. He told me that he loved me and that he wanted me to be his girlfriend. but the thing is that my parents don't know about it so im kinda scared that if they find out they will never let me see or talk to him anymore. So at this point I really don't know what to do about this problem.
Rebecca
Dorthy Scott
on Monday, July 21, 2008 at 11:43 am
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I think it is fine to have a friend that is a boy, but I would not have a boyfriend. You don't need a boyfriend until you are ready to get married. Just tell him that you would rather just be friends, but make ssure he knows that you don't hate him. I'm sure he will understand.
Rebecca
Re:
on Monday, July 21, 2008 at 11:45 am
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My nana just sent me LYWB book and I am really enjoying your web site. I have heard others point of view on things learned some too! Thanks for the cool site!
Rebecca (13)
madison
please help
on Friday, October 3, 2008 at 5:02 pm
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please help me! i'm stuck! i know i'm a christian because my mom told me that i prayed a prayer at a revival meeting. but everything seems to being going wrong. i'm 14 and in 8th grade. please help!
Ali
RE: to above
on Monday, November 24, 2008 at 11:11 am
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Well Madison I don't know exactly how to help you sense I don't know much. But put you faith in God and tell him that you want to follow him and that you will do whatever he says. But also know that it's ok to ask him to let you know what to do he'll answer! And if you aren't sure that your a Christian pray and let God know that your not sure if your a Christian and ask for home to guide you and for him to come live in your heart so that you will be able to live with forever after you die. Hope I helped some or that I didn't confuse you more! :)
God's Princess
To Madison
on Friday, January 16, 2009 at 6:54 pm
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What do you believe? I do not believe it's a prayer that makes us a christian. It's what we believe.
Do you believe these things:
1. God created the world (6 days, 6,000 years ago)
2. Adam and Eve sinned against God causing all humans after them to be sinful
3. Sin deserves the wrath of God
4. Jesus (God's Son) came down and never sinned. He died and took our punishment for our sins. Not his sins-he never sinned.
5. God rose Jesus from the dead after 3 days
6. All of the Bible is written by God and his true, holy word

If so, I would say that you are a christian. If not meditate on these verses:

Romans 10:9
If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead you will be saved.

Romans 6:23
For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.


P.S. A couple of tips:
1. Start reading your Bible each day. If you don't what to read, start with the the Gospel of John and Proverbs. Maybe a chapter of each a day for a month (John has 21 chapters so you could either split chapters up or have days where you just read from Proverbs)!

I'm praying for you : ) I don't mean I'll pray once and forget. You are in my prayer book for live once you hit the page : )!!!!
NikkiX
Re:
on Monday, July 6, 2009 at 9:50 pm
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You guys are amazing! = )
Audy G.
thanks!!!
on Saturday, September 12, 2009 at 9:38 pm
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hey! today is my first day on the site and I've already written a ton of comments! I just wanted to say thanks soooo much to you guys for listening to God and making this website cuz it's already been a HUGE encouragement and help to me!! I feel like I can talk about the problems in my life and no one's going to judge me for once..... i need all the help i can get cuz...... i'm not exaclty what..... you'd call a 'good person' if you know what i mean?? idk.... i just need a lot of work. lol :) thanks so much again!!!
audy
ps. i love the book!!!
Payton
Where's Erin?!
on Friday, December 11, 2009 at 4:10 pm
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I was just wondering...what happened to "Meet Erin." I liked that. And can we still talk to Erin??
Erin Davis
Payton
on Friday, December 11, 2009 at 4:16 pm
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Hey girl,

I'm not sure where the "meet Erin" section went. I am looking in to it. But, I'm right here. Feel free to chat with me anytime by leaving a comment on the blog.

Thanks!

Erin
Erin Davis
Payton
on Friday, December 11, 2009 at 4:26 pm
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I guess that feature has been removed permanently. But, like I said, you can find me any time by leaving me a comment. I read every one of them!

erin
Payton
Erin
on Tuesday, December 15, 2009 at 11:13 am
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Well i guess that's good. Even thought i don't really see why it should be removed. Oh well!
Anonymous
Re:
on Saturday, December 19, 2009 at 8:39 pm
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whats your email address? there was some stuff i dont really feel comfortable discussing on the blog, but i dont really have anyone to talk to... and i used to come on this blog all the time... this is the only place i know to turn, & my life is all screwed up.
Erin Davis
Anonymous
on Sunday, December 20, 2009 at 8:53 am
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Please send your email to info@reviveourhearts.com. It will reach our Biblical correspondence team. They are awesome ladies who have a lot of experience giving good, Biblical advice. I will ask them to include them in their communication with you if you'd like.

I am truly sorry you are going through a difficult time right now. I obviously don't know the details of your situation, but I do know that God is your hope in all things.

Psalm 31:24 urges you, "Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the LORD."

The Bible describes God as our refuge and strength, an ever present help in times of trouble. You can trust Him with whatever you are facing right now. He is a good and compassionate God.

Erin
Girl
Re:
on Monday, December 21, 2009 at 1:35 pm
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I think it's ok to come to a camp with curling irons and stuff, because sometimes i feel self-concious walking around with flat hair and greeasy skin ya know?
Girl
Sorry
on Monday, December 21, 2009 at 1:35 pm
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I accidentally posted my comment on the wrong post! sorry!
Cutie
Re:
on Wednesday, December 30, 2009 at 5:17 pm
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I have the book on a CD, and I still haven't gotten around to listening to it! Yikes! But I really wanna listen to it.
Me!
Help
on Tuesday, January 5, 2010 at 7:25 pm
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Hey Erin, I have a quick question for you. A family member that I am very close to was recently diagnosed with a rare cancer. Do you have some verses that could encourage me?
Anon
Quick question
on Wednesday, January 6, 2010 at 1:31 am
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Hey I was just wondering why u don't reply to comments as much as you used to
Erin Davis
Me!
on Wednesday, January 6, 2010 at 3:04 pm
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I am so sorry you are dealing with a sick family member. I know that can be really hard.

When my son was facing some serious medical issues a couple of years ago, I really depended on Scriptures that talked about God's ability to heal. Here are a few of my favorite.

Jeremiah 17:14 "Heal me, O LORD, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise."

James 5:16 says, "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective."

Also, the gospels are full of stories of Jesus miraculously healing people.

What I learned by studying healing is that there is always a level of faith required by us. This is most clearly seen in the healings Jesus did in the gospels. People believed that Jesus could/would heal them and Jesus told them that it was their faith that made them well.

But, God doesn't always choose to physically heal the sick. That doesn't mean He is any less good or God. When faced with this possibility, I think it is good to focus on those verses where God tells us that we should come to Him with our hurt.

Here are a few:

Psalm 34:18 says, "The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."

Luke 12:6-7 says, "Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God. Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows."

Isaiah 55:3 says, "Give ear and come to me; hear me, that your soul may live. I will make an everlasting covenant with you, my faithful love promised to David."

I hope this helps!

Erin
Erin Davis
Anon
on Wednesday, January 6, 2010 at 3:06 pm
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I still reply to comments as often as possible. I do my best to keep up with the comment load and comment when necessary. I don't think every comment needs a response from me. I really like it when you encourage each other. If there is something specific you'd like me to respond to, I'd be happy to do my best.

Erin
Me
Re erin
on Saturday, January 9, 2010 at 2:35 pm
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Thanks Erin!!!!!!
Hope4thehopless
Out of the dust
on Wednesday, April 21, 2010 at 11:43 pm
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Even though I am only one of Gods 12 year old children , I would like to tell you some thing . From the age of 4 - 10 I was sexualy , physicaly , and emotionaly abused . My friend , God , saved my life . He introduced social services to me and my abuser . My step father ran off while my mother , brother , and myself moved on to Colorado to meet my new dad (biological) while my 3 other abusers stayed in Oregon . I lived in Colorado for 2 years and then moved into 1 f Colorado's foster families . Through all the 2 yrs. in foster care , therapy , case workers , violence , visits , and meetings I am proud to say that in 1 week The Straw family (fosters)will be adopting me . But although only 2 years have passed Ihate the fact that social services is not what it seems : 7 months ago we got a foster baby with 9 broken ribs , broken hips , and broken fingers . We thaught surely that we would adopt her but social services sent her back . The same thing happened 2 months ago when we got a 3 yr. old and 2 monthold twins , last week they whent howe . Just yesterday God saved a baby that was braught to the emergency room ... dead . They braught it back to life . He is only 7 weeks old and has 4 broken ribs , is deff and blind , and could die any day . We agreed to take it in and give it all the love it could have for its last days . And if it servives the parents will go through therapy and get the baby back. Social servaces is not in the best interest ofthe child . The only reason why I was adopted was because I stood up for myself ... Babys can't!
Erin Davis
Hope4thehopeless
on Thursday, April 22, 2010 at 12:04 pm
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Great testimony! God is certainly good!

Erin
skai
Confusion
on Thursday, June 21, 2012 at 1:42 am
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hi... im skai and i have been a Christian for 8 yrs nw... i have a boyfriend and we are together for almost 3yrs nw... we have been so intimate with each other... i know its wrong but i cnt stop it.. i cnt control the emotions and desires i have wen i am with him.. bcoz of my guilt, i broke up with him.. he asked for a second chance and i agreed as long as we wont get intimate again... he conformed.. but there are times we get intimate.. what can i do? i cnt help myself.. i cnt say no at times... i am in this bondage... T_T pls help me... i love him
Carrie, with the LYWB team
Re: Confusion
on Monday, June 25, 2012 at 6:50 pm
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You don’t have to live in bondage to immorality. Those who have a personal relationship with Christ have been set free from the power of sin (Romans 6:14). You must choose, Skai, to engage in the battle that is being waged for your heart and mind in this area. If you are a Christ-follower, the same power that raised Christ from the dead is living in you through the Holy Spirit (Romans 8) and has given you everything you need to walk in obedience to God’s ways. “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body (1 Cor. 6:18).
Nancy DeMoss has said,

“Speaking of women dealing with sexual immorality: I wrote two words in my notes: STOP, exclamation point, NOW, period, and it's all in caps.
I don't know how else to say it, except stop it! Get somebody to help you, but attack this as if you were attacking a vicious enemy. Fight! I'm not saying it's easy to stop. I'll tell you it will be the biggest war, potentially, of your life.
Skai, the first step is to repent of your sin before God. Henry Blackaby’s two short messages entitled Repentance: The Big Turn-Around ( October 3-4, 2007) will help you in this process. Please take time to listen to them.
Second, share your need for prayer and accountability with your pastor’s wife or another godly woman who can help you gain freedom by reminding you of the truths of glorious gospel and asking you the hard questions about your moral purity.
Third, let your boyfriend know of your decision to commit whole heartedly to Jesus and His ways. Seek his forgiveness for being immoral.
Lastly, with the help of an older godly couple or your pastor and his wife, consider the specifics of what your relationship will look like as you seek to tear down the sexual strongholds that exist and establish a relationship based upon biblical principles.
Don’t delay, Skai. Get your heart right with the Lord, tonight. Know I am praying for you.