Is God opposing you?

posted by Erin Davis on 01/05/11 | Twitter: @ErinGraffiti
Category: Faith; ; 14 comments

Check out the story Jesus tells in Luke 18:9–14:

To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: "Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people-robbers, evildoers, adulterers-or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.'

"But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.'

"I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted."

Both men went to the temple. Their goal was to seek forgiveness of sin and be made right with God. But of these two men, whose prayer was heard? The man who was clearly proud of himself because he appeared to have his spiritual act together or the man who approached God humbly because of his sin? Jesus said that only the tax collector was justified before God. It wasn't the measure of his sin that made him right but the way that he approached the throne of grace.

But you're not a Pharisee and I'm not a tax collector, so what can this passage teach us about the way that we pray today? Jesus wasn't trying to teach us anything about position, but He has plenty to teach each of us about pride.

There are strong warnings against pride throughout Scripture. Several of these passages offer powerful insight to the subject of blocked prayer.

Proverbs 3:34 says, "He mocks proud mockers but shows favor to the humble and oppressed."

The "He" in this passage is the Lord (vv. 32–33). This Scripture says that He mocks the proud. The Greek word for mock is anthistēmi. (Don't worry; there won't be a vocab quiz.) It means to set one's self against, to withstand, or to resist. Are you starting to see how this concept applies to our prayer lives?

James 4:6 says, "But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: ‘God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.'" This warning is repeated again in 1 Peter 5:5.

These passages don't simply state that God is frustrated with the prideful. They say He opposes the proud. In other words, pride causes God to block, obstruct, or work against us.

That's why I included pride in my list of prayer blockers. The Pharisee in the parable from Luke went to the temple to pray for justification but instead came to God with a list of all that he was doing right. He looked around him and decided that his sins were no big deal because they weren't as "bad" as what he saw in the lives of others. Jesus used him as an example of how not to pray.

The man who humbly approached God and asked for mercy went home with his prayer for justification answered. 

Is it possible that pride has become a prayer blocker in your life? Do you go to God with a list of all that you are doing for Him, expecting Him to do things your way in return? Or do you come to Him with an attitude of repentance and the clear understanding that He is God and you are not?

Does your prayer life seem blocked? Have you considered the possibility that God is resisting your prayers because of the evidence of pride in your heart? Take some time right now to ask God to show you if you are more like the Pharisee or the tax collector, and then pray for a humble heart.

"For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted" (Luke 18:14).

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    Alley
    Erin
    on Wednesday, January 5, 2011 at 11:49 am
    thank you for that reminder- i often 4get how sinful i truly am and find myself praying to God with a prideful heart. God recently showed me how disgusting my sin is in his eyes and i came to a point of humility and was overcome with a feeling of unworthiness. however it was partly my pride that made me so disgusted with myself. like i somehow thought i was "too good for sin" or something. anyway, i just feel like sure, some of that pride that i have can be replaced with humility but is it possible to ever stand completely humble before God? so many of my sins and struggles are rooted in pride... i find it hard to believe that God would NOT oppose me because i'm so prideful and i'm sure even in ways i don't realize. so is that passage in scripture reffering to the pride in our attitude towards God or just pride in general?
    amy
    pride
    on Thursday, January 6, 2011 at 4:21 pm
    the verse that I have been dwelling on lately is from Phillipians 2:3 "do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in himility consider others better than yourselves."
    Thank you for the article. It is really difficult to uphold this standard. I am amazed at how I am constantly judging others negatively. Help me, Lord!!

    Lord Jesus dig that root of pride out of all of us. Search every place within us and do what you must to remove such pride.
    thanks you, Father
    In Jesus' Name
    Anita
    Re:
    on Friday, January 7, 2011 at 12:48 am
    Thanks :) I prayed the prayer for my friends and for myself
    Chloe
    Is This Pride?
    on Friday, January 7, 2011 at 2:34 pm
    I thought about this long and hard and then I prayed and asked God to show me which man I'm more like. And somehow I think that I'm more like the Pharisee. I'm confused whether or not it's pride though because I don't tell God everything that I've done good. In fact, most of the time I repent and ask God for forgiveness because I realize that I have disobeyed my parents again or something like that. But I do ask God for lots of things. So is this selfishness? Or is it pride?
    Antonia
    Re:
    on Saturday, January 8, 2011 at 5:31 pm
    Think I have been falling for another strand of pride - comparing myself to other Christians, saying "well, I'm not doing that" and then feeling good about my efforts as a Christian, when really what we are doing isn't that great really (doesn't the Bible say something about counting our efforts as rubbish compared to how Jesus lived?). We aren't doing it to fulfill God's ticklist, but out of LOVE for God.

    Thanks for the wake-up call! It has also helped me realise that while I don't really come to God with all the good things I do, I don't come to him with the bad either. I don't confess enough!

    God seems to have such good timing. Not only this, but the New Year's sermon on "trying to fulfill God's non-existant ticklist" has helped me to realise I need to be a lot more humble in my prayer life.
    Gracefalls
    Pride
    on Sunday, January 9, 2011 at 8:07 pm
    I need serious help... I have a problem with my pride... I dont know what to do....
    Alley
    Chloe- heart check!!! ;)
    on Monday, January 10, 2011 at 10:39 am
    I get what you're saying- I'm sometimes the same way. I think how you know what "it" is (selfishness/pride, etc) is you have to look at your heart. Is your heart saying "I deserve these things" or "God should say 'yes' to these prayers"-- essentially, is your attitude one of "I know best" instead of "God knows best"? If you find that that is the case, I'd say the issue is pride- not because you think you're awesome, but because you think you know what's best or what God should do.
    I'm not sure if the things you're asking God for are all for yourself or if you're asking God for things on the behalf of others... but if you find yourself just listing out all the things you want that in some way or another benefit YOU, I'd say selfishness is the problem.
    I know for me, I typically will pray for me but also I have a loooooong list of people in my life that I pray for. Sometimes I seem to think that God should listen to me cuz I'm asking for good things- people getting healed, physical needs being met, etc. But I need to realize that though it is good to come to God with things and ask him for his help, HE is the one in control and HE knows best- NOT me.
    Fuzzy Socks
    RE: Grace Falls
    on Monday, January 10, 2011 at 7:01 pm
    Hey girl, I'm sure all of us here would love to help but could you be more specific in your areas of pride so we can help where you need it?

    Thanks and love in Christ,
    Fuzzy
    Gracefalls
    Re Fuzzy Socks
    on Tuesday, January 11, 2011 at 1:17 pm
    Well... I kinda sometimes think that I am better than people.. and I believe I can do anything... even if it is super dangerous... And if I every loose I am upset but wont let people know... I am sorta selfish in that sence
    Fuzzy Socks
    Re: Gracefalls
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 10:22 pm
    Well sometimes you may not have made the same mistakes as others. Look at it that way: you've made mistakes but not the same kinds. Then ask God to humble you and help you with your faults.

    About the upset part, I hide myself too... Just make sure you don't try and hide yourself from God :)

    I don't think you're being all that selfish. Don't be so hard on yourself girl! We all have this stuff happen to us... You're in the boat with all of us lol. Just don't forget that Jesus is your best friend and he wants to hear all this stuff too!!! :D

    Love your sister in Christ,
    Fuzzy
    Erin Davis
    Alley
    on Thursday, January 13, 2011 at 8:36 am
    Great questions.

    I don't know if it is possible to ever stand completely humble before God. We all have a sin nature that cannot be removed until we are with Jesus in heaven. But the Bible does encourage us to confess that sin to the Lord and to ask His Holy Spirit to work in us. I think you've taken a huge step by recognizing your sin and seeking to approach God with humility.

    The Bible warns against pride several times. I think all forms of pride are dangerous. We certainly shouldn't approach God with a sense of entitlement or pride, but we shouldn't bring those things into our human relationships either.

    One passage I really like to focus on is: Romans 12:3 which says, "For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you."

    In all circumstances it is wise to remember that everything we have has been given to us by God. We should approach Him with humility and also seek to put others' needs ahead of our own.

    Does that help?

    Erin
    Erin Davis
    Chloe
    on Thursday, January 13, 2011 at 8:52 am
    Asking God for lots of things is okay. He tells us we can pray about everything! (Phillipians 4:6).

    But He also tells us to approach Him with humility. That is really about realizing that He is God and we are not.

    I'd suggest you read Revelation 4 and and Revelation 19. These two passages give powerful descriptions of God. I use them as a reminder of how awesome God is and it helps me to approach Him with the right perspective.

    Hope this helps!

    Erin
    Gracefalls
    Re Fuzzy Socks
    on Thursday, January 13, 2011 at 12:08 pm
    Well... the thing about me thinking I am better is cause I think I am so much worse than everyone else.... but thanks anywho...
    But I will try to be better in this area...
    Thanks again... Your sister in Christ,
    Gracefalls
    Shanni
    Pride
    on Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 10:52 pm
    I pray that God would help me to see every thing in my life as a gift from him. It keeps me from the entitlement attitude, and it gives me joy when i realize how the Father has lavished His gifts on me. I don't see things like this all the time, but i am praying that i would see them that way more.

    It is kinda funny-after i have approached the throne with a humble heart and repented, after i am restored, then i start to think "Woa look at ME!!! I am so good i'm sin free!!! wait, never mind. :)" God is so good through, he helps me to see how prideful i am. When my eyes are on Him, i feel wonderful, not because i am sin free in and of myself, but because he is so merciful to forgive my prideful heart again and again!!!!

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