The day of small things. It's the day when no progress seems to be made; the day when life knots itself up until the threads seem impossible to untangle. That moment when you struggle alone, and no one but God knows how beaten you feel. No one would notice it. You might not even want to remember it.

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The Day of Small Things

posted by Hannah Farver on 01/12/11
Category: Faith; ; 31 comments

The drought had stuck around for years. Water was scarce. People were dying from lack of food. But the prophet Elijah told the king he heard the sound of rushing rain. A shower was coming, he said. Then Elijah went up to the top of a mountain where he prayed to God facedown.

woman on mountain"Go up now," Elijah said to a servant, "look toward the sea."

The servant returned. "There's nothing."

"Go again."

Seven times later, the servant returned with news. "I saw a cloud the size of a man's hand, rising from the sea."

"And in a little while the heavens grew black with clouds and wind, and there was a great rain.... And the hand of the LORD was on Elijah" (1 Kings 18:45–46).

I find this story pretty trippy. Soak it in for a minute. There's drought with no sign of rain. Elijah believes rain is going to come, so he tells the king to act as if it's coming. Then he runs to a mountain for alone time with God, where he asks for a good thunderstorm. Still, no sign of rain. Finally, a tiny cloud rises in the sky.

Every time I read this story, I notice something new. The first layer of the story is obvious. It's Elijah's faith. He believes God will bring rain, even when his circumstances point to drought. He puts everything on the line—his reputation with the king, his life (they killed prophets in those days when their prophecies didn't come true). He believes God, not his circumstances.

But there's a second layer to the story that I love. It goes even deeper on the subject of faith.

When Elijah asked God for rain, the first sign was a small, almost invisible cloud. A tuft of white the size of a man's hand floating over the sea would not be enough to grab one's attention ... unless you were actively looking for it. Only eyes seeing through the lens of faith could spot the potential of that cloud.

Theologian Matthew Henry noted from this story, "Great blessings often arise from small beginnings." He added, "Let us never despise the day of small things, but hope and wait for great things from it."

The day of small things. It's the day when no progress seems to be made; the day when life knots itself up until the threads seem impossible to untangle. That moment when you struggle alone, and no one but God knows how beaten you feel—that is a small moment. No one would notice it. You might not even want to remember it.

But take that same moment, and turn it upside down. Instead of examining it with human eyes, look at it in light of Christ's love. (Didn't He die for you? Do you think there is a single prayer you have uttered that He has not heard?) Think of it in terms of God's greatness. Didn't He use the world's worst scenario—the death of God's Son—and make it end in life, resurrection, and your redemption? If He could do that, can't He make redemption come out of your life story, too?

Have the faith to see the wisp of white above the sea. God has been known to turn such small things into rainclouds.

 

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    Alley
    oh the day of "small things"...
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 9:29 am
    Lately, "small things" is all that my days have come to. I often find myself bored and unproductive and being home-schooled doesn't help! I am home most of the time with nothing to do but get back on track with school (which I am not always very motivated to do) so I find myself floudering in a mix of hopelessness/laziness/discouragement... any suggestions???
    kenzi
    re
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 10:21 am
    That was an awesome post! Thanks
    Sasha
    Wow!
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 10:30 am
    I liked the part where you said "Didn't He use the world's worst scenario- the death of God's Son- and make it end in life, resurrection, and your redemption?" -I've never thought of it that way! Thanks, Hannah!
    Marissa
    This is great
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 11:32 am
    This is a really great reminder... I was doing devotions last night with some friends, and one of them was reminding that each peice of coal in our lives (bad stuff, hard times) can be turned into diamonds (positive thoughts) This reinforced exactly what she said. Thank you for posting it. I am going to try and find some more diamonds in my life :)
    Annamarie
    Re:
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 1:47 pm
    I love your faith posts! They are so encouraging! :)
    Heather (Svan)
    Re:
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 3:47 pm
    I need some hardcore prayer right now. For the past week or so I've been tempted to randomly drive and find a man and have sex with him. Any man. And I know I would find quite a few who are willing. And I want to get pregnant. 0_o I know! What's wrong with me?! Weak.... I feel like I'm falling out of this faith real fast. Pray for me!!!
    Last Edit: on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 3:50pm by edavis  
    Chloe
    Heather
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 5:11 pm
    Heather, I have personally never experienced anything as severe as this. But here is what I would do if I was in your situation. You could start going to a counselor who's Christian and tell her what's been going on, although admitting it could be difficult. You could also talk to your youth pastor or a trusted adult. Until you can get that help I think you should ask your mom to not let you use your car for a long while or have a friend take it for a few days and find a different way to get to the places that you need to go. Hope this helped!
    Sweet Honesty 1983
    Suggestions for Alley
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 9:25 pm
    Hi Alley, I recognize myself in your situation a good while ago. Not sure what your home situation is like but don't forget all small things make a difference and a little bit goes a long way. Do extra chores around the house, like helping your mom with laundry, dishes, maybe even baking. Any siblings? Bathe them, comb their hair. Walk the dog, say hello to the neighbors, baby sitting? Wash your dad's car or your brother's, read these blogs...ALL OF THEM they make so much difference. Check out their links. Study a biblical chapter on a godly woman or read the psalms of David.

    I know how it can get when your bored and that is exaclty when you are most vulnerable to bad influences coming from anywhere. Keep it positive, the little things make a difference in other's people's lives and they will in yours and it's what Jesus would do.

    Hugs,
    Fuzzy Socks
    Re: Heather
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 10:30 pm
    Hey girl! I know exactly what you're going through.............. (had sex very recently...........) And so... yeah. Lol. well girl, I know what you're going through adn I will be praying for you FOR SURE!!!!!!! God has a better plan than for you to be with someone random. That's what I did. I lost my virginity to a guy i knew for a day. There was nothing special about it. I know now that God made sex to be between two people who love eachother. Think of this: If you're married, you want it to be as special as ever. So don't have sex now... And I get the pregnancy thing too. But you're a young lady... And you wnat the best for any child you would have and you cannot best support a child wihtout having a loving husband and a job to support and such.... Girl! The devil is trying to get to you bad. My advice is to stay away from media, friends, etc. that are encouraging the sex drive in you... That's what I'm doing. Stay away from flirty guys. All that jazz is going to make it worse. And best of all, run to Jesus and hang on tight because HES THE BEST GUY YOU'LL EVER FIND!!! :D

    sister in Christ,
    Fuzzy
    Andie
    Alley
    on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 10:34 pm
    I know exactly what you mean! (I am 15 and home schooled) I was having a day just like that this week. I'm starting to realize that even though I say I'm to busy, I should try and find another ministry and one that I can do from home. I'm praying that the Lord would send me something to fill up those empty moments. I know that unfilled time can lead to unhealthy habits. Right now is a time I should be using for the Lord. Hope this helps! Be praying for you!
    Erin Davis
    Heather
    on Thursday, January 13, 2011 at 9:06 am
    Run! Run in the opposite direction of your temptation to sin.

    I wish I could give you the contact information for every girl I know who has chosen to rebel against God's standard for purity. They would all tell you the same thing "Wait!" There are huge consequences for rebellion in this area.

    And as a mom of two little boys I can tell you that you do not want to bring a child into this world under the circumstances you described. Children are a wonderful blessing. But it isn't all about cute clothes and cuddles.

    Find someone you can confess these thoughts to and ask them to hold you accountable. Who can you tell today?

    Please leave me a comment and let me know who you plan to tell.

    Erin
    Erin Davis
    Heather
    on Thursday, January 13, 2011 at 9:08 am
    Run! Run in the opposite direction of your temptation to sin.

    I wish I could give you the contact information for every girl I know who has chosen to rebel against God's standard for purity. They would all tell you the same thing "Wait!" There are huge consequences for rebellion in this area.

    And as a mom of two little boys I can tell you that you do not want to bring a child into this world under the circumstances you described. Children are a wonderful blessing. But it isn't all about cute clothes and cuddles.

    Find someone you can confess these thoughts to and ask them to hold you accountable. Who can you tell today?

    Please leave me a comment and let me know who you plan to tell.

    Erin
    Jessi
    Alley
    on Thursday, January 13, 2011 at 10:24 am
    I know what it's like to be in your situation, where you get SO tired of life in general and just wish something exciting would happen.
    Last winter I came up with a list of stuff I would like to do before I'm 20 (I was 17). Anything. Random stuff like expanding my cd collection to reading the bible cover to cover to learning a different language. I did acomplish some, and then I made up a new list and added some, and took off others. Anyways, it helped me. Could you get more involved in your church?
    Gracefalls
    Re Heather
    on Thursday, January 13, 2011 at 11:55 am
    Aw girlie... I know how you feel... I mean I dont want to have sex right now... but I so want a guy to come and kiss me... I am really young and well I know exactly how you feel about your faith. I pretty much dropped it a few years ago... I started to do pretty nasty stuff with guys... it always got me in serious trouble... If you want to be pregnant wait for your husband... Satan doesnt want you to wait for your man... God does... Pray.. dont just have us other women / girls pray... you need too... That is one of the only ways to defeat this feeling... And also read your bible... I will be praying for you...

    Gracefalls...
    ps. It is totally worth waiting for Gods choice of a man... not yours... well kinda... if he is who God wants you to be with then yeah... just please please please wait`
    Heather (Svan)
    Erin
    on Thursday, January 13, 2011 at 5:10 pm
    There is no one for me to tell. I'll be 20-years-old in March- my mother doesn't give a crap what I do. And even if she did, she isn't going to hold me accountable in the way you think. She's not a godly woman, at all. She's very sexual (sorry mama). She'll tell me that I can have sex with someone I know if I want to, but that I shouldn't find a stranger. And there is no one else to tell.

    And I don't want a child for the cute part of it. I mean, of course I want the kisses and hugs, but I want the hardships, too. I want to wake up at 3 in the morning to feed my child, I want to worry myself about whether or not he's making right choices, I want to stay up late helping him with homework, I want to cry with him when he gets hurt, not because this sounds fun, but because it's part of having a child. Oh, and I want one so bad!
    Erin Davis
    Heather
    on Friday, January 14, 2011 at 2:33 pm
    I think you are romanticizing being a mother. Certainly...it sounds like you aren't being realistic about what it is like to be a young mother without a parenting partner/spouse.

    But, I don't believe that is the most important issue here.

    Clearly, seeking out a random guy to have sex/have a baby with is not God's plan for your life. When we live outside of God's will it's called sin and there are always consequences. The fact that you are having these cravings doesn't surprise me. We all have a sin nature and sometimes our flesh craves things that directly oppose God's Word. This is one of those times. But in those circumstances God's Holy Spirit gives us the strength to deny our flesh and choose to believe and live out God's Truth.

    I am sorry that you don't have support at home, but that doesn't mean that there is absolutely no one to talk to. Talk to your pastor. Talk to your pastor's wife. Seek out a Sunday school teacher at your church. Most communities have a Christian run pregnancy center. Go there. Ask to speak to one of your counselors. I assure you that he or she will have plenty of stories about the disaster that acting on the feelings you described can cause. Keep asking for help until you find someone who can pray with you and point you toward God's Word.

    I hope you will choose to obey God in this area. He deeply desires for you to have an abundant life full of peace and fulfillment.

    Erin
    Caitlin
    Kinda off subject
    on Friday, January 14, 2011 at 3:35 pm
    Please pray for me and my family. Some in my family are struggling with drug use and they intern have been tempting me to try some drugs as well. Just please pray for me that I may remain strong and that those in my family that are struggling will get the help need.
    Thank
    Claire
    Heather
    on Friday, January 14, 2011 at 5:53 pm
    Dear Heather,
    I understand your loneliness, and your want for a child to fill your life.
    I’ve been pretty lonely lately, I have been very tempted, to throw my self at a guy, not it the same way but just to have someone to hold, and talk to…
    But when I think about here what I come up with, I’m so selfish, if I spend all these beautiful gifts of affection a love on another guy, how’s the guy I marry (if that the Lord’s plan) going to feel, I know I’d be hurt. Don’t I know that if he’s out there he’s struggling? He’s lonely? If I want him to what for me ,and cherish me how can I possible ask him to except less, and even if I don’t marry how can I imagine that my loneliness was any worse than Jesus’ on the cross, when he was separated from His Father. Jesus knows all about loneliness and he IS sufficient.
    As for getting pregnant, think about the poor child, born out of a moment of uncontrolled passion, and loneliness, it would be terrible for it to grow up without a really father. I want to make it clear if girls have fallen into sexual sin God is forgiving, but God say through Paul, “Shall we continue in sin the grace may abound? God forbid.” I know it’s not always easy and sometimes feels like it’s breaking your heart, but it will be s struggle and then you’ll know it was nothing, you have an opportunity to be an example to girls, overcome a struggle with sin, and bring glory to Christ, you know what’s God’s way, we all do so lets do it!
    Molly
    I have a question
    on Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 10:51 pm
    Ok, I have told you all of my guy. I don't see him, talk to him, or anything, but, I CAN'T GET HIM OUT OF MY MIND!! What do I do????? It has been driving my insane trying to NOT think about him. I am still confused as to what it is about him that makes me like him! He wasn't forward. He was a TOTAL gentleman. I catch myself unconsciously thinking "what if he were here? How would he like this?" or "Where would he like to go if he came to visit?". I am done with playing the unofficial breakup game!! It's not a usual break up, but, in it's own way, it is. Is there something I can do to get away from feeling lonely without him, or wanting to be around him? I am almost in a depressed stage, where I just feel sad, or lonely. I don't want it. I don't want to feel that way. I want to be able to live my new life here in Asia in peace, and not worry about a guy who was only my crush, and thinking about "what if...".

    Molly
    Gracefalls
    Um
    on Sunday, January 16, 2011 at 9:15 am
    um i dont really get this blog... can someone help me understand this?
    Gracefalls
    Re Heather
    on Sunday, January 16, 2011 at 9:21 am
    Hey Girlie,
    Think about this... My big sis decided that she would go to collage in another country... but then she started to date... she never left... then she started to live with this one guy who eh... is not so good for her... and then they had a baby... my sis is working and her guy is at home watching the baby. If you have sex with this guy and he doesnt stay with you (* or like my sis doesnt work ) you will be the one to work... every day without your child... and that is painful
    Rae L.
    to Alley
    on Sunday, January 16, 2011 at 2:30 pm
    Hi Alley!!

    For a few years in my life I was BORED out of my mind! I am home schooled too, and I totally know what it's like to not have a lot of friends and to just be able to get out of the house. So here is my advice, and obviously, you will have to talk to your parents/guardians, since I don't know if you will be able to, but maybe you could get a job out of the house? That TOTALLY helped me with my boredom, and I am now saving money for college. You will meet new people, maybe not Christians, but people you can care and pray about. This will give you something to do and a chance to get out of the house alone. So I hope that helps!
    Love,
    Rae L.
    Gracefalls
    Re Molly
    on Monday, January 17, 2011 at 10:17 am
    Hey Girlie,
    i know what you mean... i luv this boy i never see him and he never sees me.. but we really like each other and i kinda want to get him out of my head so i can get focused on school... I usually think about my future husband... reassured that I will meet my husband and the only man on my mind right now should be God
    Gracefalls
    Re Alley
    on Monday, January 17, 2011 at 10:22 am
    Hey... I know what you are feeling sister... I am also homeschooled and hate it! I can barley make friends and when I do I loose them quick. Some fun stuff to do when you are bored is just like maybe run a mile or read a book or go to the park and see if there are any ppl there your age... or if your high school lets you join a program there... just look around... try to find a job for after or before you start your studies... or just be a girl just a little longer while you still can
    Claire
    Molly
    on Monday, January 17, 2011 at 4:53 pm
    Molly I was very lonely at times, and I began to think about this guy allllllllllllll the time, it was driving me nuts at the same time, around the same time Leslie Ludy’s online magazine release an article about if you like a guy their advice if you continually think about a guy is when you do pray for an unsaved person you know and love, it work for me! And it also helps build your prayer life. Hope this helps.
    Claire
    Alley.
    on Monday, January 17, 2011 at 5:14 pm
    Ps, about home-schooling
    I know it can be hard sometimes and sometimes I’m bored out of my skull but something that has helped me, early on is seeing school kids, the bulling that goes on in school, even the drop in education (like the way they teach it) I’m really using these years to grow in Christ I finish school this year, there are great values in being home-school including the fact that I am daily grounded in truth myself and through my studies. One thing you could suggest to your Mom’s is taking a outing, to your local museum, to the zoo, some place that will be fun from you and your siblings if you have sibling try offering to help them with their studies, there by helping them helping yourself, teach your self for the future if God plan for you is becoming a Mom, and also learn patience and stuff working with them. In Christ’s Blood.
    Molly
    Claire and Gracefalls
    on Monday, January 17, 2011 at 11:16 pm
    Thank you girls!! I needed that!

    I do try to think about my future husband, and it does help, sometimes. What makes this even harder, is that was are on opposite sides of the world. He liked me, I liked him. I didn't really consume myself over him, but when he gave me a charm to wear right before I left, I melted. Ever since, I have thought and wandered why he didn't tell me sooner, or why he kept me waiting for it for several weeks. Yeah, I miss him like I do all of my friends. He was also like an older brother. But, for some reason, he want him. I have never *wanted* a guy before, except for my future husband. I guess it is because I am a romantic, and I liked the idea of have a "secret" lover. I am just so confused!!!!!!!! I never thought that I had actually fallen in love with him, until my mom, and my close girlfriends pointed it out. I tried to ignore it. I didn't want to fall in love. I was 16. I wasn't old enough. Neither of us were ready.

    Ok, I am ranting. I need to stop. I am making myself upset while I am typing..........=)
    Gracefalls
    Re Molly
    on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 at 11:20 am
    hey girl any time... my guy told me he liked me when I was going to leave for pittsburg.. I totally know how you feel
    Heather (Svan)
    Erin
    on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 at 10:45 pm
    I don't go to church. I can't go when I feel like I'm living one life there and a different life with my peers. I feel like such a hypocrite! So I'm not going to tell anyone how I feel.

    I've let the idea of me having a baby sit for a couple days. I'm not going to lie, I still want a baby. I want someone to give all my love to. Even if I don't have sex to conceive, I could just go to a bank. And I have the means financially to take care of another life.

    Everything works out except one thing. I realized that my baby, if I were to have one, should have a father. Also, if I have a baby before getting married, who will want to marry me then? Who wants to marry a woman who already has a child by some other man?

    Erin, even though I still want a baby more than anything else in the world (up there right next to wanting a husband), I suppose I'll wait. I promise I won't have a child.
    Kate
    hang in there, Heather!!
    on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 at 8:08 pm
    I know how you're feeling about church... I've struggled with anorexia, and everyone seemed so fake and judging all the time! Really my youth pastor's wife was the only one who took me seriously about my problems, and she turned out to be a really good listener. If you can, try emailing someone at church asking if there's a girl youth leader u can talk to. I've found it's much easier to talk to people when you're not face-to-face. holding your emotions in isn't a good idea, so i think you're really brave for talking to anyone here anyways!

    Hang in there and try to talk to someone!!
    Love and hugs, Kate
    Anita
    Re:
    on Sunday, January 23, 2011 at 6:23 pm
    cool

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