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Unstoppable, Inexorable

posted by Hannah Farver on 02/23/11
Category: God; ; 31 comments

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My favorite Narnia story, The Horse and His Boy, centers around two kids, their journey to Narnia, and the lion who always chased them.

lionThe beauty of the story lies in Aslan, the lion.

Sometimes he's the one pursuing their horses, scaring the two kids nearly to death. Sometimes he takes the form of a small cat whose companionship comforts the boy one night when he's afraid of the dark.

This ties in with what I've been studying. These days, I am learning what it means to be inexorable. Inexorable means "to not be persuaded, moved, or stopped." Inexorableness is faithfulness ... but more. The ocean is inexorable when its waves crash ceaselessly against the beach. Near where I live, grassfires are inexorable—covering entire fields with consuming flames. Unstoppable. Ceaseless.

In The Horse and His Boy, a lion pursues Aravis, slicing her shoulder with his claws. Later, Aslan explains that he was the lion all along.

"Do you know why I tore you?" Aravis did not. All she knew was the stinging in her shoulder. She didn't understand, until Aslan explained, that the scraping was a lesson—an act of discipline from Aslan after Aravis' carelessness brought about the whipping of a servant girl. He disciplined her so Aravis would learn to treat others with grace.

Aslan's love was unstoppable, inexorable. Much like the love of God.

Sometimes He's the chaser of monsters and calmer of fears. Sometimes He's the one chasing me, to push me where I need to go and change me into one who is better. But very often, He's like Aslan when he leaped behind Aravis, grazing her shoulder with claws.

God has good reason for "scratching" me. In Psalm 85:8, David writes, "for he will speak peace to his people, to his saints; but let them not turn back to folly." Elsewhere, he says, "God will let me look in triumph on my enemies," but "kill them not, lest my people forget" (Ps. 59:10–11).

I don't know the exact reason why God knits hard times into our lives. Sometimes the reason becomes apparent after the season has passed. Sometimes it never does. But I do know this: God loves us. And if His love is anything, it's inexorable. That means it's unstoppable. It won't move.

If love is real, it can be measured by how steadfast it is. No one can talk a true lover out of loving; it's impossible to persuade love to leave. Love will love in spite of imperfections, though it will fight for imperfections to be removed.

As C.S. Lewis said, "God has paid us the ... compliment of loving us, in the deepest, most tragic, most inexorable sense." God's love won't leave us alone. Instead, it loves unto maturity.

Even the famous "love chapter" from 1 Corinthians 13 speaks of this. We've probably all read the part that says, "Love is patient, love is kind." Those words are pretty famous. But the summation of love is at the end of that passage where it says, "Love never ends."

Deep, inexorable love wants to take us to the fountains where joy runs deepest. He wants us to meet Him there. But in order to take us to those places, He sometimes has to chase us to make us move. He sometimes has to scrape us to teach us never to walk certain paths again. Sometimes He even has to give us scars.

In the end, Aslan explained this to the children:

"I was the lion who forced you to join with Aravis. I was the cat who comforted you among the houses of the dead. I was the lion who drove the jackals from you while you slept. I was the lion who gave the horses the new strength of fear for the last mile so that you should reach King Lune in time..."

In the end, Aslan had his reasons. And when it was all over, the children trusted him.

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    Nadine
    Trust!
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 6:12 am
    Thanks you so much for sharing these words. I've been through a pretty rough time lately, and these words clearly describe my deepest convictions!Sometimes I indeed ask God, why do you hurt me so much? I just don't understand...
    But in the same time I know that God is working on something better in me. Knowimg He will and is already using my scares of life for His glory and reaching others who are hurt in this life! He really is the Lion and the Lamb.
    Sometimes it's so hard to totally trust Him, but I know that My Lord is good, trustworthy and enough. He is faithfull and will remain faithfull, whatever may come my way!

    Blessings from Holland!
    ana
    Re:
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 9:12 am
    This is exactly what is bothering me! i love how u put things on here that go right along. its hard to put everything into God's hands and let him lead your way. and this is kind of off topic but right now i like this guy but he isn't a christian. he is so sweet though and treats girls the way they should be treated. what is some advice on this topic? ?
    Ashley Waldvgel
    God has unstoppable Love
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 10:19 am
    No matter how many trials we have in life God will always love us. I was blessed when I read this because i love Chronicles of Narnia too, and i always compare God and Aslan while I'm watching the movie's and reading the books. I'm thankful God has this kind of love that will never end or fade away.
    Gods Jewel
    Great Post!
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 11:31 am
    I like the Narnia Stories too.
    I always liked Aslan no matter what happened. He was teaching and guiding those who believed in him. He is just like God and I'm thankful for that. God punishes us so we stay on the right track..
    andrea
    Re:
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 11:43 am
    Amazing!! I never thought of it that way! The horse and his boy is one of my favorites, too. :) Thanks Hannah!
    andrea
    Re:
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 11:46 am
    When you said sometimes He even has to give us scars, do you mean like abuse? Because I thought God wasn't the author of abuse...I don't know....i'm confused...
    Kaylea
    Amazing
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 11:52 am
    This was an amazing post thank you!
    Traci
    Great Post!
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 12:05 pm
    Great post, Hannah! Very good analogy! I haven't read any of C.S. Lewis's books yet, but I have recently put them ALL on my "plan to read" list! =D
    Thanks for the great reminder of God's unfailing, inexorable, sometimes un-understandable LOVE for us! He is so good!!!
    Annamarie
    Re:
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 12:12 pm
    Wow, this really is an amazing post, this has helped me. You said God's love is unstoppable and it never ends, and I'm glad you posted this, I really have been needing this.
    Abbey
    Trials do have benefits
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 12:35 pm
    This is so encouraging. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one going through hard times, and that nobody see's or cares. But there is an ultimate reason for these trials! They are as a fire refines silver. They make us grow closer to God and purify our hearts. They give us experience so that we can further realate to unbeliers that also struggle, but without the firm love of Christ. All these sufferings, from a family death, to a thorn in your foot, equip us to serve the King better, and truly live the full life He wishes for us!
    kenzi
    re
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 12:55 pm
    Great post! I totally agree! I've had a hard time but I finally realized from some harsh loving truthful words of a friend that I could break free from my hurt and God's helping me.
    Rachel
    .
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 1:07 pm
    Wow, I really enjoyed reading this blog entry it was very touching, or something along those lines : ) Thank you, God Bless.
    Chloe
    I completely agree with this!
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 1:28 pm
    I know exactly what you are talking about, sometimes God does things or allows things to happen that we don't understand. Last year, my aunt and uncle had a little baby girl. She had lots of health problems and she had to be put on many machines just to stay alive. The doctors didn't even think that she would survive. Today, she's one year old and she can sit up, and can almost crawl. She can eat soft foods and she can say "Mama" and "Dada". She's making a miraculous recovery. The point that I'm trying to make is that nobody knows why Vanessa went through that period of her life, and we may never know. All I know is that God saved her, and He has a purpose and a future for that little girl. What I'm trying to say is that even though we may not always understand why certain things happen, just like Aravis didn't in the Chronicles of Narnia, God still has everything under control, regardless of the outcome of the situation.
    Fuzzy Socks
    Thanks, Hannah!!!
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 6:21 pm
    I really needed this. I have a lot of unspoken things that i need prayer for... I constantly feel like I'm being pulled down and I have to fight to keep my head above water. I just needed the encouragement that God is always there and he lets these things happen to have us grow closer to Him.

    Please pray for me in this time of hardship for me and my family.

    Love,
    Fuzzy
    Susan
    made me cry
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 7:46 pm
    That made me think about how God pursues us and how beautiful that is. I think sometimes I think it is up to me to pursue Him, but it is the other way around. I LOVE how you write.Thnx for sharing what God is teaching you.
    Susan
    made me cry
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 7:54 pm
    That made me think about how God pursues us and how beautiful that is. I think sometimes I think it is up to me to pursue Him, but it is the other way around. I LOVE how you write.Thnx for sharing what God is teaching you.
    Savvy
    Thanks
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 8:29 pm
    Thanks so much I needed to hear that!!!!!
    Bekah
    Wow...
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 9:34 pm
    Thanks for the post Hannah, lately I've been dealing with understanding why God is "Scratching me" so to speak. I love the Chronicles of Narnia :D a nd Horse and his boy is also my favorite:D:D :D I would definitely recommend that series to any one who would love a good read and a few good lessons :)
    Libs
    Wow.
    on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 at 10:27 pm
    This was a REALLY good post. And I needed to be encouraged by it today. Thank you, so much. Your writing style is unique, and I like it. :)
    AbbyS
    Praise God
    on Thursday, February 24, 2011 at 12:23 am
    It's so easy to think of hard times as pure punishment. But what we don't realize is that God does it all out of LOVE. It's hard for me to wrap my head around that, but reading this helped!
    Anita
    Oh Wow
    on Thursday, February 24, 2011 at 12:27 am
    This was good :)
    Made me think... you made lots of great points. I'm going on that road to healing one step at a time
    collet
    oh wow..
    on Thursday, February 24, 2011 at 11:52 am
    that made me think...
    I've been having a hard time with Gods love and all the hard times he puts in my life... this, this is just amazing...it spoke to me big time..
    i haven't felt so peaceful for a long time.. so printing this off to keep it and read it often.. i'm on the road of healing for sure. i have had a lot of hard times since december.. but God is slowly but surly healing the cuts and scrapes on my heart... and even though i have some scars.. i know God is with me. thanks!
    Christa
    Re:
    on Thursday, February 24, 2011 at 9:15 pm
    Thanks for this post!

    Great point and great message!! God only causes us to go through certain things to draw Him closer but to also love Him more!:)

    Blessings!:)
    Carina
    Trials & Tests
    on Friday, February 25, 2011 at 12:32 am
    Great post! This is so true! We think God is harming us at the time but in the end we see how He really did know what was best, and that even though it hurt to go through the fire we are refined and beautiful in the end. :)
    Amythyst
    Re:
    on Friday, February 25, 2011 at 12:41 am
    I'm not too sure about this post. I know God allows bad things to happen to us sometimes for some ultimate good, but I wouldn't compare it to Aslan ripping open some girl's shoulder. And Aslan is not God. Could you please find some more scripture that ties in with this?
    Becca
    only God can fill me
    on Friday, February 25, 2011 at 11:02 am
    Last year, I got my very first dog, he was my bff puppy! The next year I lost him, we had to put him to sleep for some reasons. :( I kept asking God why He did that to me! I couldn't understand it. I begged God to give me a new dog. And finally we got a new puppy! Once I got one, I realized that even the best puppy ever (which I got!) couldn't fill the gap of my old dog. I realized that ONLY GOD CAN MEND A BROKEN HEART. And I think that's why God made me go through that trial, even though it took me over a year to understand why.
    Gabriella
    re: Becca
    on Monday, February 28, 2011 at 9:28 pm
    Aw:(... but its okay God provides! Hows the new puppy?? lol
    Gabriella
    wow.
    on Monday, February 28, 2011 at 9:29 pm
    Great blog!:) luv it.
    Jenna
    Hard times
    on Monday, February 28, 2011 at 11:43 pm
    Thanks 4 the post! It is very encoraging to me! Times are tuff cause one of my friends that I've probably known since she was born has an eating disorder. It is really hard to watch her get worse. i barely recongnize her from the old friend I used to. Plus it has taken an emotional toll on me. Its hard watching my friend destroy her life. Sometijmes I think its almost hurting me more than her. But its good to know that God has a good reason for this. It gives me hope. And a bright spot is i have gotten closer to a mutaul friend of ours.
    Thanks for listening!
    Gabriella
    Re: Jenna
    on Sunday, March 6, 2011 at 10:23 pm
    Aw Jenna, i can relate to that a lot one of my best friends changed schools two years ago and she is an absolute wreck with guys, and sadly drugs:( It's hard because they become a different person and its like you can't even connect with them anymore those are hard times.... YOUR FRIEND IS IN MY PRAYERS!!!

    Love, Gabriella
    ashtree85
    Re:
    on Wednesday, March 9, 2011 at 4:12 pm
    Definately needed this today...thanks for the post. Keeping our eyes on Christ is hard at times when our circumstances make us want to complain and grumble. Knowing Christ as Savior and Redeemer is an incredible thing. But learning to know Him as Life itself in the midst of difficulty is something to be treasured as well. Keep the faith girls.

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