Goodbye, crutches!

posted by Erin Davis on 06/09/11 | Twitter: @ErinGraffiti
Category: Myself; ; 23 comments

Taylor GarmsOur readers love to talk about God's truth. Several months ago, we offered the chance for LYWB.com readers to submit posts for our blog. The response was overwhelming. You'll be able to catch the writing of these one-time guest bloggers in the coming months. These are readers just like you who are striving to live out God's truth. Since these are guest bloggers, their style or approach may be a little different than you're used to, but we've read every word and we think they've got something important to say. In fact, check this great post by Taylor Garms.

"Hey Stacie ... wha-what?"

Michaela stood in the doorway to Stacie's room, staring at her younger sister. "What in the world? I thought your leg was better!" Stacie hobbled toward Michaela on a pair of crutches. "Yeah," said Stacie, looking at her crutches, "it is, but I just got so used to walking with these that I decided to use them again."

Okay, a little ridiculous, right? But how often do we act the same way?

When the Lord Jesus saved us, He gave us a new life, a fresh start. We are chosen, adopted, redeemed, and forgiven (Eph.1:4–8), but some days we forget who we are. We go back to crutches, allowing our sin to cripple us. Yelling at our siblings, rebelling against our parents, succumbing to peer pressure, living totally opposite to God's Word ... we almost go back to "crawling" sometimes.

Consider the man sentenced to 35 years in prison. When his time was up, he hesitated at the door to his cell, and then turned back, reluctant to leave the cold familiarity of the jail he'd lived in for so long.

Your friend hands you an ice cream cone (vanilla for me, thank you!). You push it away, saying, "Ah, not right now. I've got some delicious dirt I'd rather eat instead." What! Your friend may call the insane asylum! Yet we reject the freedom of new life in Christ for old ways of living and stubborn sin.

Many Christians today reject the freedom of Christ by continuing in their former lives. But though we come just as we are, sister, we can't stay the way we are. God is constantly beckoning us to higher places, to Himself, calling us to leave our crutches behind. "Let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us" (Heb. 12:1). He gives us the Holy Spirit Who works within us to say "no" to sin.

With the power of God, we can bite our tongues when we feel like yelling at our younger siblings. Through the strength of the Holy Spirit, we can submit ourselves to our parents' authority. And, reminded by God's Word, we can say to friends who encourage us to sin, "No way, I'm not who I was, I'm a child of God. I cannot do that anymore." God will provide what we need to stand. There is no need to use crutches any longer.

So say "goodbye" to crutches. You can walk, girl! Step outside your prison cell; you aren't locked up anymore. You are free, free to be a child of God, what you were meant to be.

Live as free men, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as servants of God. —1 Peter 2:16

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    Makenzie
    What a Reminder!
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 7:16 am
    Thank you so much! This was such a wake up call to me and I am so glad I read this. No matter what the sin is, God still wants me to come to Him and He will give me the will power to stand up and say no. And I'm only human, so when I fail, He is always there to pick me back up! Thank you again for reminding me that :)
    Courtney
    Re:
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 7:30 am
    Awesome post!
    Alyssa
    Post
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 10:36 am
    This was one of my favorite posts! I really liked the comparison between the crutches and keeping on sinning, instead of staying as a child of God.

    You did a great job Taylor!
    K.C.
    thanks/pray
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 10:54 am
    Thanks I really needed to hear this.
    Jessie
    Re:
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 11:57 am
    Thanks for the great post. it helps a lot.XD
    Alanna
    <3
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 12:52 pm
    I love this! Never thought of sin as going back to crutches just to be crippled again. Gave me a new perspective and I'm always glad for that. Thank you!
    morgan(:
    crutches
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 3:38 pm
    i love this! just because you used to live your life satan's way instead of God's way, once you commit your life to Jesus, you can't hold on to all of the stuff you lived for before.
    Annamarie
    Re:
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 4:14 pm
    I liked how you explained this, thanks Taylor Garms! :)
    Victoria H
    Thanks
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 5:04 pm
    this is very true. i see so many of my friends go back to the old ways of life. it's hard to see. we all need to see this. :) thanks yo!
    anon
    Re:
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 6:30 pm
    Oh my gosh Taylor I love this. Thanks so much for this post. I loved the ice cream analogy (I like it when people use analogies for religious stuff :)). It's very true. And this:

    " And, reminded by God's Word, we can say to friends who encourage us to sin, "No way, I'm not who I was, I'm a child of God. I cannot do that anymore." "

    is what I wanna say to someone who encourages me to sin the next time they do so. THANK YOU. :)
    Chloe
    Excellent Post!
    on Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 8:23 pm
    Thanks so much for posting this, I definitely needed to be reminded!
    smileadey
    being free
    on Friday, June 10, 2011 at 5:39 am
    hi, I have a very very very important question. It concerns my future, about how I can live for God in the future. My passion is in performing, and I've always hoped to join the entertainment industry when I grow up. I'm just curious if it is actually possible to be a Christian in the entertainment industry, for me mainly in the Korean pop world. I honestly believe that nothing's too difficult for God, even in the darkest of places such as the entertainment industry. But I just don't know if I should. I do wonder and think that perhaps God can use me to shine there and that can make an impact... Please do give me some advice because I really don't know what to do and I have to decide soon by applying for jobs or courses... ><
    Becca
    should i feel this way???
    on Saturday, June 11, 2011 at 12:24 am
    Hey ok I really need some answers...(again haha im sorry) Ok so lately I have been really happy....just enjoying life a lot but sometimes I get this thought that "it won't be like this for long" or something terrible is going to happen.....so now I'm almost scared to be happy. I feel like its too good to be true.......should I be worried about the future .....I mean one night I just sobbed on my floor , thinking that my world is going to fall apart..........is this just the devil causing me to stumble becuase I have just starting drawing closer to the Lord....I just don't know .....I am praying and reading the Bible
    Ok well thanks =D
    anonymous girly girl
    re
    on Saturday, June 11, 2011 at 2:20 pm
    awesome reminder! :D
    Lisa
    So true
    on Sunday, June 12, 2011 at 4:20 am
    Isn't it funny though how people always accuse us of using Christianity as our crutch? In reality, before Christ we were all broken or lamed and we used the things like popularity or alcohol as a crutch, it wasn't til we accepted Christ that we found complete healing. What are you waiting for? Throw your crutches aside!!!
    Carina
    I Love The Way God Operates :)
    on Sunday, June 12, 2011 at 5:29 pm
    I totally needed to hear each and every word on this blog today. And God keeps bringing up those verses to me. I am just blown away. All I can do is smile when I think about how God is so intimate, and that He plans everthing to get my attention. And I love the clear message from Him. It's nice to know what I need to work on. :)

    Thank you so much! Fantastic blog!

    Love To All My Sisters In Christ,
    Carina
    Anita
    Re:
    on Sunday, June 12, 2011 at 7:45 pm
    This applies to me. I do need to get out of my crutches. Thanks :)
    Taylor Garms
    Praise the Lord!
    on Monday, June 13, 2011 at 6:11 pm
    Thank you for your comments, sweethearts! I am so glad to hear how God has used this article to encourage and challenge you all; praise the Lord!

    I am praying for each of you. Let us continue to throw aside our "crutches" daily! It is not easy to leave behind things which are "comfortable" (like wrong habits we have slipped into), but through the grace and power of God, we can be "more than conquerors".

    Keep on fighting the good fight! Continue to surrender to Him and move forward in His love and grace. God has great things in store for you, sisters!

    In His Love,
    your sister in Christ,
    Taylor
    Christen
    Becca
    on Tuesday, June 14, 2011 at 1:13 pm
    Since I dont know your circumstances, im not sure how to respond to the reason for your fear. But I can assure you that God does not want any of his children to be controlled by anxiety.
    "No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." - 1 Corinthians 10:13 you dont need to fear any trials that may come your way. God will prepare you for whatever evil may be approaching. Also, there are brothers and sisters who will ( if something bad does happen soon) be able to relate to the bad times that you may face. And dont be afraid to be happy, rejoice thru it all :).
    Here are some other verses that may help you:
    "Fear not to go down into Egypt;
    for I will there make of thee a great nation: I will go down with thee into Egypt; and I will also surely bring thee up again" Genesis 46:3,4 Egypt is like the trials we face.
    "Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning" Psalm 30:5
    God bless you sister! Dont be afraid!

    Christen
    Carrie, with the LYWB team
    Re:
    on Wednesday, June 15, 2011 at 4:20 pm
    Hey Becca,

    It’s great that you are drawing near to the Lord! Keep reading God’s Word and talking to Him; that’s the way you’ll continue to grow in your love for Him and your understanding of His ways.

    You are so right, Becca, “what if” thoughts can definitely steal our joy! That’s why Jesus said that we don’t have to be anxious for tomorrow because our Heavenly Father already knows what tomorrow holds and He has promised to provide everything we need when we get there (Matthew 6:31-34).

    We don’t have to be slaves to fear (of the future or anything else) because if we are a Christ-follower then we’re daughters of the King of the Universe. And He always takes care of His kids (Rom. 8:14-15, 28, 31-32).

    So the next time those thoughts come, Becca, refuse to let your mind stay there. Instead think on (even quote out loud) God’s truth. Here are some great verses for you to focus on.

    • The LORD your God, the Holy One of Israel your Savior…. Since you are precious in my sight, since you are honored and I love you… Do not fear for I am with you…” (Isaiah 43:1-5).
    • The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me? Psalm 118:6-7
    • When I am afraid, I will trust in you. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be afraid (Psalm 56:3-4).
    i_am_what_i've_overcome
    Coinkidink!
    on Friday, June 17, 2011 at 6:56 pm
    This is so wierd!The theme of my summer camp was "Embrace Freedom" and we learned about becoming free. This will help me remember that I am free and that I don't need a crutch. Thanks so much for this post!
    Manda
    Taylor
    on Saturday, June 18, 2011 at 9:57 am
    Hi Taylor! Your post reminded me of a teaching style of a Professor I had at Word of Life Bible Institute who is named Dr. Wicks. The way you taught through your writing is similar to his way of teaching. Thought you might like to know you sound like a Seminary Dr.! :)
    Becca
    Thank you girls soo much!!!
    on Monday, June 20, 2011 at 11:06 pm
    It helped tons!! I don't have as many stuggles with it now =]
    Thank you soo much!!!

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