Bilingual Lessons in a Bathroom

posted by Erin Davis on 06/23/11 | Twitter: @ErinGraffiti
Category: Faith; ; 16 comments

April GarretsonOur readers love to talk about God's truth. Several months ago, we offered the chance for LYWB.com readers to submit posts for our blog. The response was overwhelming. You'll be able to catch the writing of these one-time guest bloggers in the coming months. These are readers just like you who are striving to live out God's truth. Since these are guest bloggers, their style or approach may be a little different than you're used to, but we've read every word and we think they've got something important to say. In fact, check this great post by April Garretson.

"But Mom, I'm scared Dad is going to hurt me!"

My four-year-old son's face was in a panic, and his eyes told me these were not Jeremiah's occasional alligator tears. He was afraid.

Earlier that day we went on one of the most beautiful autumn hikes. Two miles along a creek, over stone walls, and through narrow boulder passages the path led straight to a rushing white waterfall. It was there, at our long-awaited destination, that my husband and I found the splinter in our son's finger. "Can we wait to get it out until we are home?" Jeremiah asked. Given our limited amount of daylight, just a small pair of tweezers on my husband's Swiss Army knife, and still a two-mile hike back to the car, we agreed.

Later that night, the tears exploded! The repeating chant was, "I am scared that Dad will hurt me!" Those words stung, and my husband's heart ached. How were we going to get this visibly huge splinter out of that little finger if he believed that? As I took Jeremiah into the bathroom to help him gain his composure, we talked. Knowing what a wonderful man I married and the answer, I asked Jeremiah, "Would Dad ever do anything to hurt you?"  

"No, Momma," he sniffed.

So I leaned in and asked, "Then, why are you scared?"

"Dad will hurt me when he gets the splinter out" was his retort.

"But Jeremiah, you know that Dad would never do anything to purposely hurt you, he loves you." As I dried tears, wiped a nose, and held his hand, I shared with Jeremiah exactly what I had spent all summer teaching young girls in our LYWB Summer Bible study. With full confidence I asked, "Jeremiah, do you agree with me that Daddy would never do anything to hurt you?" I received a whole-hearted nod. On to the next question. "Then if you say Daddy would hurt you, that is a lie, right?" And this time I got a double nod. Finally I asked, "Do you know where lies come from?"  

With a little light bulb going off, Jeremiah answered. "That old serpent?!"  

"Yes! Satan tries to tell us lies, so we will not listen to the truth. The truth is Daddy would never hurt you!" Now I had tears in my eyes. With that Jeremiah swung opened the door, balled fists on his hips, and yelled, "That old serpent isn't gonna get me! Ohhh Daaadddd, I'mmmm ready!"  Mere seconds later, the splinter was gone.

While leading the LYWB Bible study, I realized that I had not yet fully accepted a very basic principal in my own Christian walk ... Satan is not bilingual! Only God speaks truth to us. Anything else is simply a lie from the Liar. The difference between knowing that and believing it is what allows us to swing open the door and embrace God's richest blessings and unlimited abundance in our lives.

About the Author:  Writing for His glory is what excites April Garretson. She is currently enrolled in the Liberty University Home Bible Institute and a graduate of Carol Kent's Speak Up with Confidence Seminar. Wednesdays find her at church with middle and high school girls chatting about biblical characters and real life situations. Her husband and son would encourage you to read more about how she loves to go barefoot at Barefoot Offering.

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    Emma
    Re:
    on Thursday, June 23, 2011 at 9:13 am
    Thanks for writing,April.I guess everyone needs to be reminded that God will never hurt us and we need to trust Him.
    Kenzi
    Re
    on Thursday, June 23, 2011 at 9:32 am
    Wow that was amazing!!! Thanks SOOOO much!!!
    Jess
    :)
    on Thursday, June 23, 2011 at 10:07 am
    Where's the like button!!!! I love this post!! I never thought about it this way before!!! God is not bilingual! :D
    morgan(:
    aww(:
    on Thursday, June 23, 2011 at 3:40 pm
    this is such a great post(: and using the story that way is really gona help girls remember and understand what you are trying to say in this post(: thanx soo much!
    Alex
    ahhh
    on Thursday, June 23, 2011 at 6:37 pm
    how cute.
    sarah
    Re:
    on Thursday, June 23, 2011 at 10:11 pm
    this was a great post. thx for it April. I just wonder why God let Satan 'live' my life for so long. And why God put leukemia into my body.
    Cindy Bultema
    Powerful!
    on Thursday, June 23, 2011 at 11:17 pm
    What a powerful post! May I remember Jeremiah's words the next time the enemy tries to get me to fall for one of his lies...
    "That old serpent isn't gonna get me!!
    anon
    LOVE this post
    on Thursday, June 23, 2011 at 11:35 pm
    This post, April, is the reason I finally just accepted God's grace for a specific sin this morning/afternoon. I learned yesterday/today from "Sick Cycle Carousel" by Lifehouse (WONDERFUL song that describes all I've tried to do over the past year or more) that no matter how hard we try to defeat our sins, WE can't; all we can - and have - to do is accept God's grace for the sin(s) and there ya go, DONE. That's it! No fighting with yourself, nothing! Just accept something God freely offers! This post made me realize, "God's not trying to hurt me with His rules" so I accepted His grace for a specific sin and I haven't struggled with it today. :D So happy! Thanks so much for this! xoxoxo.
    Tanya Glanzman
    Re:
    on Friday, June 24, 2011 at 6:25 am
    Awesome post April! :) ... As we are suppose to come to Him with the faith of a little child it is so important to be able to discern the voice of the Father from the voice of the enemy. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story with such an important reminder!
    Heidi
    Re:
    on Friday, June 24, 2011 at 1:26 pm
    Wow! I really like this, April. Thanks so much for writing! It makes me wonder why I have so much trouble letting go of the lies I believe. I should have the same enthusiasm as Jeremiah and say, "That old serpent isn't gonna get me!"
    Allison Welch
    Re:
    on Friday, June 24, 2011 at 1:49 pm
    Great post, April! I need to remember this next time God wants to remove the log in my eye! ;-) Keep up the wonderful work.
    Sarah S.
    To Sarah
    on Saturday, June 25, 2011 at 2:05 am
    What do you mean satan lived your life? God gave human beings freewill and yes satan tempts us but he doesn't make our choices for us. I think maybe your blaming something you've done on God.He has a higher purpose.We serve a mighty God who loves us more then we can comprehend. Love in Christ. Sarah S.
    Erin Davis
    confused
    on Saturday, June 25, 2011 at 2:57 pm
    Hi there, sweet girl.

    We did not post your comment because it has involves a legal issues with a minor (you and your brother). However, someone from our Biblical correspondence team will be contacting you via email soon.

    In the meantime, I want to encourage you to tell someone about what happened to you ASAP! You do not owe it to your brother to protect him. What he did to you was a sin and a crime and you need to tell someone so that you can heal.

    Who can you tell today?

    The answer to your question is that you most certainly are pure. You did not choose to disobey God in the area of purity. You have done everything in your power to keep His commands in this area of your life.

    But please reach out to someone ASAP. Otherwise you will have a hard time understanding God's Truth in this area.

    Again, who can you tell?

    I am going to ask our team to pray for you this weekend. Please let us know if we can do anything to help you take the brave step of talking to someone about what happened to you.

    Erin
    Katydid
    Re:
    on Saturday, June 25, 2011 at 7:54 pm
    This is such a powerful example of Gods love and is a great way to understand how the lies of the devil can get in our way.
    Thanks heaps for posting this, it was a great reminder that our Father would never hurt us for any other reason than to pull a splinter (or sin) out of lives.
    :)
    anon4058
    Re:
    on Monday, June 27, 2011 at 3:29 pm
    Great post. I don't understand why God put leukemia into my body, if He doesn't want to hurt me. I guess I must of done something bad.
    Lorree, with the LYWB team
    re: Sarah
    on Monday, June 27, 2011 at 4:03 pm
    God has been drawing you to Himself from the day you were born! He has been using people, situations, “life” to draw you into a personal relationship with Him.

    Sweet, Sarah, we may never know on this side of Heaven why God has allowed you to have leukemia. But we do know that God is good all the time. He loves you more than you can possibly imagine, Sarah! His ways are not our ways (Is. 55:8-9). His love for us is beyond our ability to understand (Ps. 103). He has the ability to use all things for our good (Rom. 8:28-29).

    There’s a song with the phrase “when you can’t see His hand, trust His heart”. Even though you may not understand why he allowed leukemia in your life, you can trust His heart. He wants to use this to bring you into a deeper relationship with Him and to grow you in your knowledge and experience of His grace. His mercies are new every morning, Sarah!

    Praying for you!
    Lorree

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