A Crash Course On Fasting

posted by Erin Davis on 11/21/11 | Twitter: @ErinGraffiti
Category: Faith; ; 20 comments

Thanksgiving is hands down my favorite holiday. There are lots of reasons for that—turkey, mashed potatoes, pie, stuffing, noodles, green bean casserole ... you get the point. With all of the focus on food that will inevitably happen this week, it may seem like a strange choice to blog about fasting, but I actually think Thanksgiving provides a great opportunity for us to take a look at taking a break from food from time to time.

woman holding BibleSeveral months ago, one of you left me a comment asking for my advice about how to deal with a difficult situation. My response was to set aside some time to fast and pray. Your reaction surprised me. Many of you left comments saying that you wanted to know more about fasting. What is it, exactly? Should all Christians fast? When do you fast? What if fasting makes your thoughts dwell on weight, should you fast anyway?

These are great questions! And I am so glad that you are thinking about this issue, because fasting is a topic that is addressed often in God's Word. In fact, there are so many references to fasting in Scripture that I won't be able to tackle all of it in a single post. So I'll be blogging about fasting in several chunks in the coming weeks.

Before we get too far, I want to define fasting. Fasting simply means to abstain from something that you are used to ingesting. Usually, fasting means taking a break from eating or from eating certain foods. But it is also possible to fast from specific media forms such as TV or Facebook or from something else that you take in on a regular basis. The purpose of fasting is to take a break from focusing on yourself and to feast on the things of God.

I like how Elyse Fitzpatrick explains it in this Revive Our Hearts broadcast:

I think it's good for us just from time to time to say no to our flesh. Can you have [food]? Sure. Is it sinful for you to have it? No. Do you need to have it whenever you want it? Absolutely not. You know what? Today I am going to say no ...

Just to say, "Flesh, you are not going to rule my life." And during this time when I would have spent time cooking or eating ... I'm going to meditate on the Lord.

Simply put, fasting gives us an opportunity to deny ourselves and focus on Christ. Here are some thoughts on fasting, pulled straight from Scripture.

The people of Israel turned to fasting to help them win battles.

In Judges 20:26 all of Israel fasted and wept before the Lord after several days of losing battles against the Benjamites. The next day they won the war against their enemy. There are many other examples in Scripture of the armies of Israel fasting before battle.

You probably aren't engaged in a war with the Benjamites. But that doesn't mean that you don't face battles. Are you struggling to have victory over sin? Are you engaged in a conflict at home or at school? Fasting is a way to prepare yourself for the battle.

Many people in the Bible fasted in response to their own sin.

In 1 Samuel 7 the people of Israel fasted after being confronted with their sin of serving other Gods. In Joel 1:14 the people of Israel were called to a corporate (group) fast because of the need to repent of their sins.

When you sin against God or when you are stuck in a pattern of sin, fasting is an appropriate response.

Fasting is not a magic formula to make sure our prayers work.

In 2 Samuel 12 we find David fasting for his sick son. In the end, despite David's fast and prayers, the boy died. Fasting does not ensure that God will answer our prayers our way. So what's the point?

Psalm 69:10 puts it this way, "When I wept and humbled my soul with fasting, it became my reproach."  

I love the psalmist's words here: "humbled my soul with fasting." One of the goals of fasting is to humble ourselves before God and recognize our need for Him. Everything we have comes from Him, including our food. That humility that comes from acknowledging our dependence on Him puts us in a great place to approach Him through prayer.

Fasting is personal and best done in private.

In Matthew 6:16–18 Jesus gave these instructions for fasting: "When you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that their fasting may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, that your fasting may not be seen by others but by your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you."

Jesus took his own advice when he retreated to the wilderness alone to fast and pray for forty days and forty nights (Matt. 4:2).

The point of fasting is not to draw attention to yourself. If you feel the need to go around telling everyone you know that you're on a fast so that they will see how spiritual you are, you're missing the point big time. Fasting isn't the ultimate goal. Feasting on God is! That's why it's best to keep your efforts just between you and God.

Certainly making the choice not to eat and keeping it a secret can be a dangerous choice for some girls, especially those of you with eating disorders or a body obsession. That's why I want you to make sure you come back to the blog tomorrow to read my post on reasons not to fast.

But for now, I'd love to hear from you. Have you ever fasted? What was the result? Based on the Scriptures you just read, what are good reasons to fast?

If you're really feeling hungry (pun intended) to learn more about this subject, I want to challenge you to do a word study of your own. Simply type the word "fast" into online concordance such as biblegateway.com or use the concordance in the back of your Bible to read all the verses you can about fasting. Then hop right back here on the blog, and tell us what you've learned.

Comments

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    Lydia
    Re:
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 1:35 am
    Last year, I fasted from lunch and went to a (relatively) quiet place at school on Fridays. I would read Scripture and pray. Honestly, every time Friday came around, I would inwardly groan... but by the end of my time with God, I was grateful I did it! (Just make sure you take a mint, so you don't get that gross breath you get after you haven't eaten anything in a while... ) Also, I've tried fasting loosely for "Lent" (though I don't really call it that to avoid any connotations). Fasting from electronics is hard! But rewarding :) God bless, ladies <3
    Marie
    Just what I've been waiting for
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 2:55 am
    Thank you for this post, Erin!

    I've been following this blog for several years now, and it never ceases to amaze me how God uses your words at the exact time that I am dealing with different topics.

    Several of my friends have been fasting regularly (2-3 times per week) this fall. This originally seemed like a good idea to me, and I wanted to learn more about it. But one of my friends, a guy, has lost a lot of weight because of it and is now really underweight, but has not stopped or changed his fasting, as far as I know. Honestly, this made me angry; but I'm not sure if it is out of concern for my friend, or conviction of how much of a slave I am to food, or both.
    Now I'm not sure what to think of fasting, since my friend was very Godly before but is now exhausted all the time and unhealthy because of it (although he reports an irreplacable closeness to and blessing from God when he fasts). How much does God want us to deprive our bodies? How can we maintain the right reasons for fasting? How do we know when fasting, itself, has become an idol, or something we have added to grace? Is there a point at which we should stop fasting for a while, and how do we recognize if that is from God and not a temptation?
    Sorry for all the questions. I am really looking forward to tomorrow's post.
    Nohemi Garcia
    fast
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 9:52 am
    You said that to fast is not to ingest something for a period of time. I usually eat on the go, while doing chores, or whenever I can get a bite. How can I fast food and dedicate that time to the Lord?
    Gods Jewel
    Fasting..
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 11:06 am
    I have never fasted from eating, but I have fasted from electronics (computer, Ipod touch,kindle reading). I go to a summer camp, where nothing electronic is allowed (even cell phones, they have land-line phones you can use). I never thought it was that bad, but last summer there were so many complainers...I don't get it! Is it that hard to give up texting and Facebook for two weeks? (I don't have either of these, bc I saw what damage it could do to people,especially teenagers). I think fasting is a very good way to come closer to God, it made me focus more on my heart and relationship with God.
    Emily
    Re:
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 11:58 am
    I spend a lot of time by myself. Parents at work, older brothers at work or just doing thier own thing... So I spend quite a bit of time listening to my ipod or maybe reading. But lately I've been realizing (whenever i go to bed and reaize i 'forgot' to read my bible today) that I waste a lot of time on things. Time that i could be with the Lord. So, I locked my ipod in my jewelry box for a month :p Don't know about the rest of you, but I considered it a fast sorta.... I've never fasted on food before though. Excited to read the next blog!
    anonymous
    Non related question
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 12:57 pm
    Hey, do you think you guys can start a new post on the Twilight craze? How do you tell people that it is really an unwise media choice, especially young teen fans?
    SWF
    Still wondering...
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 1:06 pm
    I agree that if you're struggling to have victory in battles that fasting is a great thing to do, but what is food is a struggle for you? If my parents were to find me fasting, they'd flip because I'm like 30 pounds underweight. So confused.
    Erin Davis
    Anonymous
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 3:09 pm
    Great idea! We will work on getting a Twilight post written and up ASAP.

    Erin
    Erin Davis
    SWF
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 3:12 pm
    If you are someone who is in bondage over food or if fasting is something you would need to hide from your parents, then fasting from food is probably unwise. In fact, I will address this directly in tomorrow's blog post, so be sure to check that out.

    But here is an alternative, if you are struggling to have victory in this area, why not fast from something non-food related such as TV, your iPod or Facebook. Use the time you would be spending on media to pray specifically for victory or to research verses about food.

    Sound like a plan?

    Erin
    Carina
    Fasting
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 8:24 pm
    Great post!!

    It is really funny that the post is about fasting today, because last night I went to bed thinking maybe I should fast today...like it seemed like God was maybe telling me to...and I think this post definetely confirmed that! I love the way God works :)

    Maybe I will fast tomorrow or be sure to follow God when He leads me to do it again...
    I would have to tell my parents though cuz they would probably ask why I wasn't eating, but that's not like going against what Jesus said about doin it in secret right?

    Thanks again, can't wait for tommorow's post!

    Love To All My Sisters In Christ,
    Carina
    Ashley
    Fasting
    on Monday, November 21, 2011 at 10:15 pm
    I have never fasted from food, but I have fasted from media (cellphone, computer, kindle, iPod, etc.) As God's Jewel says I also go to that camp and fast of all media. I hear some people have a really hard time not having those electronics, but I always find myself closer to God during those two weeks when I don't have any of those distractions around me.
    I would always encourage you girls to take some time away from media and just concentrate fully on God!!
    rose
    i love this topic!
    on Tuesday, November 22, 2011 at 4:14 am
    Thanks Erin for this post..It just reminds me to seek God in humble spirit.I did fasting before and it was awesome that i experienced the SPIRIT of the LORD moving in me.
    Kat
    Re: Carina
    on Tuesday, November 22, 2011 at 8:41 am
    Great post, Erin. :) Hey Carina, I don't think it's unbiblical to tell your parents about your fasting - especially if you're asked. Part of honoring our parents is being respectful, and hiding truth from them is anything but.

    Like Erin posted, Jesus' taught that fasting, when proclaimed to others and done to be noticed, is wrong. He was comparing godly fasting with people who purposefully attracted attention to themselves. Therefore, fasting "in secret," the opposite, would also need to not attract attention to yourself. So if you hide why you're not eating and your parents notice but you still don't tell them, that seems like it would definitely attract extra attention. If my family doesn't ask when I don't tell them that I'm not eating, I won't say why. However, if one of them does, it's simple just to say "I'm fasting today," and they usually let it go. If they don't let it go, keep your reasons for fasting simple and brief, and I'm pretty sure they'll accept. I seriously do not think God minds that, and while I'm no authority on Scripture, I myself have never had my spiritual time of fasting hindered or felt puffed up when I do tell others, as long as I don't go on and on about why I'm abstaining (I added that last part because one time I did have a long discussion with one of my friends at school that I was fasting and for the rest of the day I kept being reminded of that convo. Seems better to not talk much about fasting while you're actually doing it so as to be more focused on the Lord). Hope your fasting time is blessed!
    Caroline
    Re:
    on Tuesday, November 22, 2011 at 8:53 am
    Wow this could have not come at a better time for me. I just decided yesterday that I wanted to take a break from movies and television and use that time to spend with God. I then began to question if it really was important and this really has showed me how important it is to God and how special our time is to Him. Thank you for posting this.
    Gods Jewel
    Re : Ashley
    on Tuesday, November 22, 2011 at 9:10 am
    I agree completely, twin sister! I think that fasting from the media for two weeks helps me grow closer to Christ. The thing that drives me crazy is that when we get home I go back to my old ways, and I feel like I lost what I had gained..
    Lorree, with the LYWB team
    re: Marie
    on Tuesday, November 22, 2011 at 1:29 pm
    You ask some very, very good questions. I hope you continue to follow Erin’s blog on the topic of fasting. It is good to bring these questions to the Lord and seek His wisdom on them!

    I can hear your concern for your friend and his health. I encourage you to continue to pray through this, Marie. Search the Word. It could be that your friend has a food bondage issue that is being fueled by his desire to obey God in fasting. Speak with your parents and/or your pastor about your thoughts and your questions. Tell them about your concerns for your friend. He may need someone to question his motives and the results you are seeing. Perhaps it would be suggested that he try fasting from media rather than food for a while until he gets his health back.

    Many good things, activities or disciplines in our lives can slip into the place of idolatry when we seek to gain God’s favor in any place other than Christ’s sacrifice on the cross. It is something we need to be very careful about. It is God’s desire that we glorify Him in our bodies (1 Cor. 6:19-20). We are not to bring attention to ourselves through fasting (Matt. 6:16-18). When fasting begins to show in the deterioration of our health, is that glorifying God? Is it what God desires for us? Is it maintaining a spirit of humility when others can obviously see that we are fasting?

    God is faithful. He will guide you in the right way to go! Thanks for caring for your friend enough to ask these hard questions! Praying for you, Marie!
    Carina
    Re: Kat
    on Tuesday, November 22, 2011 at 1:30 pm
    Thanks Kat! Yeah that makes sense :) He cares about our motives and reasons for doin things, so that's what matters :)

    Love To All My Sisters In Christ,
    Carina
    SWF
    Thanks, Erin!
    on Tuesday, November 22, 2011 at 6:07 pm
    Thanks, Erin, I will do that. I'll probably fast from facebook--I'm on way to much. Thanks for the ideas (:
    Sarah, with the LYWB team
    Nohemi...
    on Wednesday, November 23, 2011 at 10:41 pm
    Even though you are working, or on the go, you can fast for a period of time each day. As you go about your way, pray as you go when you feel the hunger pangs.

    Or perhaps as part of your fast, you commit to cease from work or activity for 15 minutes so that you can spend that time concentrating on the Lord.

    God will be honored by your heart, not the partcular way you fast.
    Rebecca
    Fasting
    on Saturday, December 10, 2011 at 5:11 pm
    Thanks so much for this post, Erin! Sorry I haven't been posting too much lately I've been insanely busy with school this year. I really appreciated this, though! I've been excitedly waiting for it since we started talking about it a few posts ago. I am very grateful for the time and effort you put into this blog for us chickies. :)

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