What Does Pursuing God Look Like?

Anna wrote me recently:

I want to know Jesus more and pursue Him, especially during this time of singleness. Would you mind sharing some thoughts on what pursuing Christ looks like? Does it go deeper than just praying, reading the Bible, fasting, and so on?

What a fantastic, practical question!

While it might not feel like a glamorous answer, the hands-down, number-one way to pursue Christ is to study your Bible.

Pleasure doesn’t just automatically happen by doing something over and over; it develops as we learn more about it.

If you’re anything like me, there’s a big disconnect there. I want to know a living Person . . . and you’re telling me to pick up a book?

Yep. One day soon—if all your hope for acceptance by God lies in Christ—you will interact in person with God. Not just that, you will live with Him (Rev. 21:3)! But in the meantime, God has left us a Book
telling us what He’s like. That’s how He’s chosen to reveal Himself.

So in order to make sure you’re getting to know God as He actually is—and not as you want Him to be—you need to meticulously pour over this Book to learn about Him.

If that sounds too impersonal and intellectual to you, know this: just ’cause you’re using your head doesn’t mean you won’t be engaging your heart. Quite the opposite, actually.

What a Yale Study Has to Teach Us About Loving God

I learned about Paul Bloom’s “pleasure research” through this blog post by Jen Wilkin. Mr. Bloom, a Yale professor, set out to discover how we find pleasure in things, and this is what he learned: Pleasure doesn’t just automatically happen by doing something over and over; it develops as we learn more about it.

For example, the more you learn about Star Wars, the more pleasure you’ll experience from it (just ask my husband!). Similarly, “If we want to feel deeply about God,” Jen Wilkin writes, “we must learn to think deeply about Him. The heart cannot love what the mind does not know.”

May I give you a recent example of this from my own life?

My husband and I are studying a doozy of a book called The Person of Christ by Donald Macleod. As I’ve stretched my brain and thought about the “pre-existence of Christ” (meaning that Jesus existed with God, as God, before He was born to a virgin in Bethlehem), I’ve been blown away. Check out this paragraph by Mr. Macleod to see what I mean:

There was a unique bond between the Father and the Son, arising from the fact that the Son was uniquely lovable and the Father was uniquely affectionate. God could not have made a greater sacrifice. His love is astonishing precisely because at this point he put the world before his Son. The statement “God gave the world for his Son” would evoke no wonder. The statement, “God gave his Son for the world” borders on the incredible. Conversely, the Son could not have suffered a greater loss. To have “lost” the Father, as he did in the dereliction (Mk. 15:34), was the greatest of all possible pains.

How about it? Are you willing to try pursuing God through learning about Him in His Word? If so, read yesterday’s blog post for five practical steps I like to use to learn about God in His Word.

About Author

Paula Marsteller

Paula no longer tries to catch guys’ attention by swallowing live goldfish, arm wrestling, and jumping down flights of stairs. (She’s married to a wonderful man now!) She spends her days caring for her son, Iren, and writing for Revive Our Hearts. She’s the author of Confessions of a Boy-Crazy Girl: On Her Journey from Neediness to Freedom, and she and her family live in New York. You can catch all her writing on PaulaWrites.com.

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  • Ashli Gramenz

    Another fantastic blog post! This has been something I have actually had questions about myself and I’m thankful that you wrote a blog post about it. I had revelation yesterday and an amazing heartfelt conversation with God this past afternoon that I think has catapulted me further into my love for Him. Your blog post yesterday has helped me more than you could ever know and this one has too. Thank you so much for the posts. God bless.

    • phendricks

      I’m so glad they were helpful, Ashli!

  • Katie Stewart

    Where can we join the Women of the Word giveaway?

    • phendricks

      Hey, Katie,

      Sorry, that was our bad. Come back Friday for the giveaway!

  • Emma

    Thank you so much for this post! I have already been struggling to keep on with my Bible reading this year. I really am excited about you guys writing everything in the context of Bible reading this whole month! It will be very helpful, and already has been!

    • phendricks

      Grow our hunger for you, God! Emma and I want to fight for time with You, because we know You are our only treasure. Keep helping us want you; help us sacrifice sleep and other good things for the best thing.

  • Joy

    This is really encouraging me to read the Bible. I do want to know God, but when I read the Bible I dont understand it and that frustrates me sometimes. Now I am trying to read it little by little.

    • phendricks

      I’m so glad to hear that, Joy! It’s hard work, for sure. But oh-so-rewarding to get to know the God we were made by and for.

      Don’t forget to also ask the Holy Spirit to help you understand what you’re reading. 🙂

  • “A heart cannot love what the mind does not know” I like that. Great post, thanks for the knowledge. Haha… ohhh Star Wars..

    • phendricks

      😉